well i like to think yeah my friends really like me. but i know they like other people better and they all really like this other girl. well i hope when i go to high school i can find someone im not ashamed to call my best friend. because i know they like each other better and i know they talk behind my back. well did you/ do you have this prolem??
lol sorry if its long.
2006-08-04 06:24:21 · 10 answers · asked by i_♥_coke&water 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Most of us have only one or two truly "best friends". To qualify as a best friend, here is what is needed.
1. Your friend must have a few likes and dislikes similar to you.
2. You must be prepared to be open and candid with each other.
3. There must not be any hidden agendas when you talk or discuss things.
4. You must trust each other to look out for each other.
From what you describe, your "best friends" are really acquaintances thrown together with you. Cultivate good friendships and just be polite to others.
Much as people don't like him President Bush is capable of cultivating true friendships. he has done that with a couple of world leaders---British and German and Afghan prime ministers.
2006-08-04 06:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by paanbahar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing. I hate annoying people, and I rarely feel accepted. I have a few "friends" in my grade, who treat me really badly. I have some friends who are like 2 or 3 or 4 or 5 years older than me, but we aren't all that close because they're so much older than me. I've been assured by some of those older friends that they think fine of me, that they don't talk behind my back. It's nice, and I've been told that I'm a great friend and a kind person, and I act much older than my age (I'm 14 and people think I'm 16 or 17 when they meet me) but I don't have any real true friends. I have awful crush problems, and I think I do it because all I really want is some true companionship.
2006-08-04 13:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In junior high, yeah I had that problem. The friends that I made in high school and college that I keep in touch with are the people I consider true friends. You'll find yours - honestly!
2006-08-04 13:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its sad to say but i believe i have ONE true friend. He is my everything and the only person i truly trust and share myself with. He is my inspiration, my shoulder to cry on, my lips to kiss and he has my heart.
In todays society it is hard to find a "good" friend that will always be there for you through good and bad.
I find myself lucky to have such a special friend in my life
2006-08-04 13:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if their talking behind your back they aren't friends to begin with, just get out more and start making new friends, be yourself, and i'm sure you'll find a best friend.
2006-08-04 13:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like four.
2006-08-04 13:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-04 13:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by bigboi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA WHY DO YOU WANNA KNOW ITS NOT LIKE YOU KNOW ANY OF MY FRIENDS IF YOUR IN FREAKN 8TH GRADE AND IM IN SIXTH
2006-08-04 13:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by charley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like yourself and if you"friends' dont like it then they are not really your friends
2006-08-04 13:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by LOS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tottaly
2006-08-04 13:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋