We both like each other and he never says anything about this but it just comes out and I look back and say "where did that come from"??? How do I relax around him???
2006-08-04 06:03:44 · 9 answers · asked by L.E Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE INSECURE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP STEP BACK AND TAKE A LONG HARD LOOK AT IT .
YOU WILL BE FINE SOUNDS LIKE YOU REALLY LOVE HIM JUST BE YOURSELF IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL UNDERSTAND
2006-08-04 08:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just going to take time until you feel more comfortable around him.. you may think your relaxed, but your probably at a stage in the relationship where you want everything to be perfect and by thinking too much about what your going to say.. that happens to me all the time where I will say the stupidist things because I am pre thinking what I am going to say.. just let the conversation flow and things should come out properly.. also you should metion this to your boyfriend.. soo he understands and maybe he can help you out..
Good luck
2006-08-04 06:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by lilarose17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you feel you're going to say something "stupid" take a second to BREATHE and consider what exactly it is you're saying and how it relates to your conversation.
I had this problem too, but taking a second to breathe and think it through for a moment really helped!!
Good Luck!!
ALoha!
2006-08-04 06:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means whenever you are with your boyfriend you get very nervous.Just take a chill-pill pal and everything will be perfect.Just you need is little confidence of yourself.Just think you are the best.
2006-08-04 06:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by suparna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time . In the mean time . Carry a snack ( or drink ) with you and before you go to say something , take a big bite ( or drink )! That way you have time to think about what you are going to say .
2006-08-04 06:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is called the "I" statement. It will get the point across to him without alienating him.
"When you say ____. I feel embarassed." You aren't accusing him of anything you are just telling him how YOU feel which hopefully he will care about.
2006-08-04 06:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember: he's probably just as nervous as you are. Just relax and remember...everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time!
2006-08-04 06:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing here...you just need to think about something else and by the passage of time you'll both forget wut U said or did...but oh gurl that sucks when i say sumthing nasty or do something repolsive then i need to sit on my bed and close my eyes soooooooo tight tryin to forget that
2006-08-04 06:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B yourself and if he doesn't like you like that then he isn't worth dating trust me it is more fun when you ar the real you
2006-08-04 06:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by morgan m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋