my boyfriend likes for me to do it to him up the whoha does this mean that he is gay?
2006-08-04 05:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by barbie c 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Strap on!!!
2006-08-04 07:20:59 · update #1
It has nothing at all to do with being gay ! Being gay means you are attracted to men !!!!! (Don't get me wrong, he could be gay, but this alone is not evidence). But let me give you an alternative view to consider. My girl friend and I began experimenting with toys and light bondage over a year ago. It is a very trusting and sensual experience to be restrained while your lover pleases you. We aren't into to whips and pain and stuff like that ........ just completely allowing your partner to pleasure you. Recently, she decided to try using a strap-on on me. I was nervous at first but agreed. We both enjoyed it. The sensation was pleasurable (there is some pleasure from prostate stimulation), and I get as hard as a rock when she does it, but what we both really got off on was her being in control and me being completely submissive and trusting. And as she put it, "you get to feel what it is like to have your lover inside of you". There was also a little bit of pain associated with the pleasure, but that also heightened the experience - it was really all about her being in control, and me being submissive (used to always be the other way around - now we take turns). She actually orgasms during the act, sometimes more than once. So at least for me ....... it has nothing to do with being gay ......... it is all about letting go and letting the other person be in control ....... and the strap-on signifies role reversal and control. He may not express it this way, but I am sure that is probably part of it. It can be hard to really let go of that and be o.k. with being that submissive, but once you do it, it is is very liberating and opens up a whole lot of avenues. I can also tell you that my girlfriend said she enjoys this role more than she ever thought possible. Of course, I still get my turn to be in charge also !!!!! Feel free to holler at me mikeallen555555 at yahoo dot com of course. I have a story I wrote that could describe what we did in more detail - it might help explain it more. Write me and I will send it to you.
2006-08-04 11:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by mikeallen555555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. The butt is full of pleasure nerves hooked directly to the brain's sexual centers. That is one of it's functions. So if anyone thinks it isn't natural, complain to the manufacturer. By the way, finger or strap on? Just curious.
2006-08-04 14:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys like the exact same thing - if I were you I would take his word that he isn't gay. He just likes the feeling and he is comfortable enough with you to talk about it - that is great.
2006-08-04 13:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, He is not gay. Some males just find that erotic. Be thankfull that your relationship has such wonderfull communication that he can ask you to do that
2006-08-04 12:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by microfurby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but I think I should watch the two of you just to make sure...
2006-08-04 13:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Barbie,
I can't respond to your message thru yahoo answers. Can you e-mail me again and give me your personal e-mail so I can respond?
2006-08-04 14:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by works_out_a_lot_27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not gay (depending on what you look like) nah just kidding ask him to show it to you and you will see what he likes about it
2006-08-04 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by TheBiologicalBisexual 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. a lot of guys like it. it's called milking the prostate. it makes them "come" faster and harder.
2006-08-06 20:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it means he is a man.
2006-08-04 13:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all
2006-08-04 13:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋