2006-08-04 05:19:43 · 16 answers · asked by kitten30fl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If a medical exam rules out any physical reason, YOU start foreplay. I have never known a guy to turn down any sex that is offered to him.
2006-08-04 05:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by #girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy!
Older men are better when they are visually stimulated. Try getting a new sexy oufit, put on a robe, while he's out watching TV, sit down on the other end of the couch, open the robe, slowly slide one shoulder down, even if you think he isn't watching, then the other.....maybe rub your shoulder or thigh........once you know you have gotten his attention, get up and walk away.........
He'll come find you!
Teasing is a tool and no matter what age they are, they love to be teased. Be creative........you can get him interested!!!!
2006-08-04 12:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask him what would make him more interested!
Tell him how you feel... it may feel awkward to talk about it, but it could be that as he's getting older he doesn't need it as much. If he's having problems physically (you know, that man thing??!) then it could be something that keeps him from initiating anything very often. If that's the case, he should see a doctor just in case.
Good luck!
2006-08-04 12:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by MissJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as an older woman of 51--I can confirm that some men at least become less interested in sex as they hit their mid 40's. My last husband completely lost interest sex and then I completely lost interest in him. We got divorced basically cause he refused to have sex. So watch out.
However, not all men are like that--my bf now who is in his mid 50's takes care of me in that area--several times a weekend--so perhaps you might want to consider finding another guy.
2006-08-04 12:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with him!
Visit museums!
Serve him a glass of red wine (not more than two), you can have a little more!
Show him who is the most interesting person on earth, for him!
2006-08-04 12:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by SuSaiQi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use noxima on your legs makes them realy nice to touch.
2006-08-04 12:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by position28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
older guys libido slows down around 40... you might need to see if he is having some manly problems
2006-08-04 12:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more spontanious ask what he enjoys most and see how you can accomodate it where you both are getting what makes you happy. good luck.
2006-08-04 12:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by la calenita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra
Cialis
Levitra
Check your email you probably got spam to buy some
2006-08-04 12:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mark J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him and you join and gym it builds stamina and confidence
2006-08-04 12:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋