i think my mom will freak out and iam not sure how to tell her...please help!!
2006-08-04 05:14:26 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Bre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well that depends. We have, and continue to teach our children that we will ove them no matter what they do in life. But that's us. I would hope that if one of my children were gay that they would feel free to come and talk to us aout it. Of course I would want to know what makes them believe they are gay, and if they truely are, I would accept them no matter what.
Just my 2 cents worth
2006-08-04 05:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by capbarrow2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question...when you are absolutely sure and ready to tell that is when you should do so...sit them down...let them know you have something to share that they may be surprised about...and just tell them...they may freak...however, as long as they love you, they will accept you for who you are, no matter what...good luck.
2006-08-04 12:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her as nicely as possible. It will probably be a shock to both your parents, so as long as you are able to nicely tell them hopefully they will take it well.
Just try to mentally prepare yourself for both the best and the worst reactions. Good luck and I hope it goes smoothly!
2006-08-04 15:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it when the time is right and do it with the one u feel more comfortable telling about and u should tell them before u find someone to or they wont get y and u will probably have to give it some time for them to understand and u mite have to explain.
2006-08-04 12:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by sunbabi1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them! you are what you are and they will love you any way you are their child, maybe if you gave them info on pflag ( parents and friiends of lesbian and gay ) they could better deal or at least have some info to better understand what you are going through
2006-08-04 12:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by susi98223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever tell them ur gay, its not accepted in this world, if u told ur parents and ur not sure even 1% that they'll be ok with, dont tell them, people dont eccept aod an unusuall things in life, dont rewin things with ur perants, its not worth it
2006-08-04 12:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by ayala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her she is your mom and should accept it. so just tell her mom i am gay. all she can do is accept it.
2006-08-04 12:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them wen u think it's da rite time
2006-08-04 12:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't have to.....your parents may already suspect that you are gay.
2006-08-04 12:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by ernesto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her if she loves you like she say than she will love you for who you are and what you like!!!!!!!!
2006-08-04 12:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by michelle f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋