i had a baby 8 weeks ago and now ive just found out im 4 weeks pregnant and i also have adopted my sisters 8 month old daughter, how can i tell my husband?? PLEASE HELP!
2006-08-04 05:13:27 · 27 answers · asked by linsy 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
However you break this one it's going to be hard - but your Yahoo buddies are right - he was there too - you simply couldn't have done it on your own!
I like the stiff drink suggestion - and don't let it turn into an argument - be prepared to stay calm and say "We can talk about it later after you've got used to the idea" and then walking calmly away.
Perhaps you should be shouting at him...? After all, it's you who has to put up with the back ache, sore boobs etc so soon after only partially recovering from the last "Mini me"
Good luck with your new baby, your sister's baby and your pregnancy.
2006-08-04 07:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by FancyFace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it Honey, he might flip, go round the ceiling a few times and maybe run off to the pub tonight for a few well deserved beers BUT at the end of the day if he has supported you with adopting your sisters little one THEN HE is one in a million TRUST me on this one I had a very similar thing happen to me a few yrs ago. Just take the bull by the horns and get it DONE....good luck and I sincerely hope you have a wonderful life with your obviously lovely family......And what a fantastic person you are for taking your sisters little one....Man ya made me cry XXXXXXXXX
2006-08-04 05:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats it may be hard at first because there all so young an need alot of looking after but remind your husband that with in 4 years they will all b at school the best thing about having them all together like that is they help each other learn, everything is easier potty training weaning feeding they watch each other an pick up things easier u wait an see he will supprise u he might just be very happy to hear this news. dont get urself stressed
2006-08-07 22:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Twiggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife had 3 children in three and a half years, all girls, I managed to persuade her that the POPE may be wrong, so then a gap of 5 years untill my son was born. My fist born is now 36 years old and I have 6 grandchildren from my now married girls, , nobody does drugs or leads a bad life,,,, I can recommend it.... just tell him how blessed he is.. when we were young we also had very little money, but we got by,, things are great now and we have far more that a large bank balance,, which we also now have ,,, got by hard work..... go for it, and enjoy.
2006-08-07 17:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by big tone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one every baby is a great gift in the world and having another baby is not bad yeah it's very soon but that's ok and you adopted your sisters baby that is also good and be thankful that you can have children some people can't Even have children and tell your husband sit down with him and tell him and if he don't except it then tell him it's your child and that is what a husband is there for to help and support you and be more safer about your sex life
2006-08-04 05:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Leomi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow how are you feeling you need to tell him you cant go thru this on your own you may end up with 3 under 2's can you cope tell him sit him down or leave a test on the side in the bathroom then he will come to you may find that easier all the best an congrats on your baby an well done for adopting we need more people like you she would be proud
2006-08-05 13:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is going to be hard for both of you. just think it as this you will have all the children out of the way and they will bring each other up and you will be able to wean the two youngest and potty train them together (ithink i got the ages right) no seriously it take two to make a baby your husband will probally be shocked at first like you are but if he is a proper dad and hubby then he will just get on with it. Can i suggest birth control. Good luck it will be hard but it will get easier.
2006-08-04 08:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably be ok with that and you are worrying for nothing. He is the daddy, so he is responsible for this too. Sooner or later you probably would have another kid, so it happened sooner rather than later. Just think of the sleepless nights that you can get out of the way pretty much at the same time, and then enjoy them growing up and your husband and yourself being able to return to your own time sooner. So, it all has its +s and -s. Enjoy your pregnancy.
2006-08-04 06:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... he did the job, didn't he? I mean, you just sit him down, preferably after the kids are asleep, so that you are not interrupted, and tell him that you are pregnant again. I... personally, I didn't know you could get pregnant before the 40-days after birth are through, but then, I have not been there yet...
Courage, and yes, better sooner than later, he must know, I think, and good luck! To all of you!
2006-08-04 05:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 11:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by stealy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋