At 20 yrs old for a responsible mature man,think he still has the curiosity to cheat?

Question

I am a single but yet married woman (24) with 3kids, still in process of divorce.. met a 20yr. old very responsible mature man (20) he shows alot of love me all of us very helpful..but he is very private with his personal life he answers his business calls but sometimes don't answer his phone and I think it's another lady when he is off from work he likes to drink alcohol he is not abusive or anything just that he has not come home 2 times said he drunk too much and fell asleep also he does not like me asking him questions where he is going, etc. but his attitude towards me has not changed still shows me alot of love spends time with me and takes care of the household but I am afraid because of his age. I do know that he always says I beg you to never hurt me by cheating on me I have asked him if he has cheated on me and he said no he loves me with all of his heart his family loves all of us too I really do take care of him and show him the kind of woman I truly am.

Answer 1

At 20 years old expecting him to be involved in a relationship with an older woman with 3 kids is placing a lot of stress on someone who obviously handles his issues poorly. It sounds as if he has a lot to hide from you, so ask yourself if you want this type of person to be responsible for you and 3 kids when he has a hard time being responsible for himself? I would suggest looking elsewhere or waiting for him to grow up some.

Answer 2

No offense lady, but you are dumb. You go through a divorce, in effect cheating on your present husband and you are worried about whether the new stud in your yard is cheating. Honey, you have a lot of guts. You have 3 kids and what an example you are setting for them. You are putting yourself first and you want to control the situation. I would suspect this caused part of your marriage breakup. If you expect anything in any future relationship or this current one, you need to reset your focus on making a stable home, not create a stud farm.