2006-08-04 04:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by doc. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No... and I'm not trying to sound trivial about it.
I mean, you test drive a car before you buy it, right?
This is the person you're supposed to live with and be true to for the rest of your life. You both should be able to discover if you're compatible with each other in that way also. It does play an important part of any relationship.
2006-08-04 04:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by J.D. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Premarital sex is a sin and it is a mistake. If you have God in the center of you life, then you will be trying every day to do what is pleasing to God. If you go against the scriptures and against the way the family was supposed to operate, then you never be happy.
Sex before marriage no only affects you adversely, but the people with whom you have relations, as well as any children born in that sinful relationship.
The prostitutes in the Bible received forgiveness if they turned away from their lifestyles and chose to be godly women. If you continue in a relationship with a man who is not your husband, then you are saying that you would rather be a prostitute than a godly woman.
2006-08-04 04:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think it is. If you are truely in love with a person and you love them in every other way, then I believe that you will not have any problems sexually. To many people just want sex, so sad when they have one night stands and things like that. Common' people if you are really looking for the one, get to know them as a person and save the bedroom excitement for later. It can be hard, but it can be done.
2006-08-04 04:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking for moral reasons, only you can answer this. Are you talking about sex with one person who you love, or just sex in general.
Some people aren't sexually compatable, and maybe it's better to find out before you marry.
In any case. premarital or any other kind of sex without a condom is a mistake, unless you both have planned for and want a baby.
2006-08-04 04:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe it is. if you have sex with someone you don't marry, that's a very intimate thing you've given them and for some ppl it's tough to get that idea or that expectation out of their heads.
also, there is pregnancy to consider, STD's, etc ... if you're with one person - the person you married - hopefully you've discussed past sexual experiences, and have discovered that you are both "clean" ...
it is of course your decision. it's just one of those adult issues that requires a lot of responsibility and thought.
as far as compatibility, the more time you spend with that person, the more compatible you will become and more interesting you sex and relationship in general will be.
yes you test drive a car, but i like to think my husband is more valuable to me than a car ... love is more sacred than a freakin' test drive.
2006-08-04 04:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is a mistake. If no one slept around before they were married, we wouldn't have the high rate of sexually transmitted diseases that we have today. If I know that I haven't had any partners before I was married, and I know that my new husband hasn't either, I don't have to worry about the possibility of contracting anything, and neither does he. Plus, I never have to worry that he's comparing me to someone else from his past any time we are intimate.
2006-08-04 04:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by kerowynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a mistake. Wait!
2006-08-04 04:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Seeking answers in Him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. God meant for it to happen between a man and a woman who were married. So, yes it is wrong.
2006-08-04 04:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by AMY L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes It's a mistake..and a big on...the Bible says that this should happen only between married people..
I don't know what u believe in!!!!
2006-08-04 04:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Nice girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should know if you are sexual compatible with someone before you marry them.
2006-08-04 04:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by highchaparral2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋