we started dating in january and broke up a month later because he cheated on me with a grl from school and i found out on v-day and i broke it off the next morning. then it seemed lik he realli wanted me back but i ignored him for 5 months and he told me he wanted me back but i juss couldnt even tho i loved him.while we were dating i couldnt even kiss him for the 1st two weeks because i juss started dating again after 2 yrs of not doing so becuz iwas sexually molested and didnt feel confortable. i never told him this while we were dating. i was too scared he might get freaked out and leave me. And it bit my in the butt because he cheated on me! we started talking again over the summer and we dated again for a month and the same thing happened and i got more frustrated cuz he did it again. we hadnt talked for a month and he thoguht we were over but i was juss busi and outta town. i recently told him and he now is upset with me and is now saying that i lied to him!! help i luv him
2006-08-04 04:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems as if he is incapable of staying faithful to you - dump him now! Forget him, you'll find someone better sooner than you think.
2006-08-04 04:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old your are and even though some may think age has nothing to do with anything, it does. It sounds like you are young (still in middle or high school). I won't say that you don't know what love is yet because you probably do. But I would venture to guess that you don't really love this boy, you just think that you do. This boy does NOT care about you if he has cheated twice. If he cared about you, he would NOT cheat on you and he should care about you whether you kissed him or not. He didn't cheat on you becuase you didn't kiss him, he cheated on you because he doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. Take it from me, the best thing to do is to get out of this situation and wait until the RIGHT boy comes along!
2006-08-04 11:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by PT&L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might just think you love him. maybe you love the idea of him. either way cheating is very, very bad and if he is already hurting you not that far into the relationship you need to forget about him. he's not worth your time or your pain. get a more respectful man
2006-08-04 14:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth the time and effort of worrying about it..You can find someone else
2006-08-04 11:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE WILL DO SOME REALLY STRANGE STUFF TO YA!!! STAY AWAY FROM HIM!!! ONCE A CHEATER... ALWAYS A CHEATER. HE IS ACCUSING YOU OF LYING TO HIM BECAUSE HE WANTS YOU TO FEEL BAD FOR HIM TO GET RID OF HIS GUILT, IF THERE IS ANY...WICH I DOUBT. IF YOU FALL FOR IT... EVERYTHING WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME YOUR FAULT. WHEN IT COMES RIGHT DOWN TO IT... HE CHEATED ON YOU.... STAY AWAY!!!
2006-08-04 11:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by mommaofmany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl leave that's to much trouble find someone else damn he cheated on u twice come on leave him alone
2006-08-04 11:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by grant_lilmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE DOSE NOT CARE FOR YOU IF HE KEEP ON CHEATING ON YOU. WHY DID YOU KEEP PU TING YOUR SELF THROUGH THAT .LEAVE HIM ALONE. AND MOVE ON.
2006-08-04 11:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋