My B/F keeps telling me he is only friends with this girl and now he told me he doesn't have to explain himself to me. He has told me that we are together.What should i believe. Do u think he is cheating?
2006-08-04 04:23:03 · 9 answers · asked by mariesgizmo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are threatened by her let him know that and maybe he can try to ease the situation by the three of you hanging out in a big group with other people. then you can see how they act around each other. if they are secretive about the relationship it's not good. but i would say you're fine. if you believe he is a stand up guy then believe if he wanted to be with her instead of you, he would
2006-08-04 07:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the same problem as one of my bestfriends. Well, I don't think he's cheating on you because the fact that you've asked him, I'm sure he aint so shallow to not admit. I just think maybe he has a crush for this girl alongside dating you. But obviously he's chosen you over her because I'm assuming both of you are official and all your common friends and others know about the two of you so he cant even think of going out with the other girl. Just trust him otherwise you might lose him. Unless he goes over the top then you can definitely jus kick him in the *** and leave him cos he'd probably be a jackass if he's two-timing. and you arent worth that crap. =)
2006-08-04 04:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Puja N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be nothing, but it sounds like your women's intuition is going off. Don't say anything and keep an eye ont he situation. If he is spending a lot of time with her, he might have a thing for her. Guys don't usually spend time with women unless they are interested. He may not even realize he is, so play it cool for now. He doesn't have to explain himself, but you don't have to tolerate it either. If you are uncomfortable, he should respect your feelings. If he doesn't then kick him to the curb.
Good Luck.
2006-08-04 04:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is certainly cheating you. He does not want you to restrain him doing whatever he likes to do with his sexual life. If he is behaving like this what will he do once he gets married. Exercise cautious optimism with such guys. There is no hard and fast rule that you should be subdued to a person who takes you for granted.
2006-08-04 04:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mustn't be speaking approximately "permitting" him something. it is his existence, his ex, his little ones and you at the instant are not area of it. in the event that they have been divorced sixteen years you're behaving such as you're paranoid. If he needed to be along with her he could. i think of it is definitely form of fresh to pay attention that he has a great dating together with his ex. in case you spend any time on YA you will comprehend it is not the norm. count selection your advantages quite of attempting to discover difficulty the place there is not any.
2016-11-03 21:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna bother u no matter wht...jealousy...it happens...but if he hasn't done anything to let u know he is cheating u should back off...i think my bf feels that way...5yrs together and i still say stuff...but its a long distance...but i realized it drives him to the point whr he says if im getting blamed for it i might as well do it....if he doesn't feel trusted he'll lose trust in u guys....just relax...but tell him to back off a lil
2006-08-04 04:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it that g/f's think you can't have a friend that is a female and (just) a friend. shouldn't matter what sex they r. i have plenty of friends that are female and i love my g/f i would never cheat on her. so i think maybe he is getting annoyed of you being so jealous when they are just friends. don't be so suspicious unless he's a ****. if you are sure he loves you then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-08-04 04:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look deep inside and be truly honest; then ask that question of yourself; I suspect you already know the answer.
2006-08-04 04:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he takes you around her then don't worry, if you have never been around them and he won't let you hang out with them then worry.
2006-08-04 04:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋