Prior to getting married my husband had this friend of his daughters went to the same preschool and where close friends. The kids although going to different schools now still like to play together. I however do not like the mother of the other little girl. My husband always invites them to parties we have and makes us get together to do things on occation. The single mom is very flirtatious with my husband but that I can deal with because she has nothing on me. I dislike being around her more because she is just not my kind of people. She is a cheese and wine type of person and I am a loud music and beer type of person. He is going away for a guys vacation and set up a "play date" for me and my daughter to hang out with this other mom and her kid. I do not want to and told him so. He got upset he thinks I should go along with it for our daughter. I would rather burn my eyes out with a hot poker. How can I get him to understand.
2006-08-04 04:21:55 · 6 answers · asked by monkey f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are a grown woman. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. Never feel bad for not doing something that makes you uncomfortable.
2006-08-04 04:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel about the woman and that you'd rather have a mother/daughter outing with your child alone. You don't need anyone else. If he doesn't understand that, then oh well, he has to live with it. He can't force you to be around people you don't care for not even for your daughter's sake. That is just silly, he ought to grow up! I totally agree with the people who have answered this question.
2006-08-04 04:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and say NO - why the heck are you letting him control your agenda especially this, "play date" crap - if your truly a loud music and beer kinda gal I believe you would just stand your ground - come on, time to get assertive! Also, nothing wrong with these two girls getting together by themselves you moms dont need to do anything together just cause they are together.
2006-08-04 04:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple!! As man that has "dated" and been committed to a "Warden"(Woman) for many years in my life. Use your talent, that every woman has in Her arsenol! "Give him that look that you "Girls" use so well." The next time you have that conversation about that other woman, and you say NO!!" Then give him that look- "EAT SH*T and CHOKE, YOU SORRY BAST*RD!!" and "Mean-it!" If he has one brain-cell in his head, then he'll know that he better back down to Mamma's request or learn to love sleeping outside and "eating-poop" for supper...
(#2) Us men(smart men) know that you "Girls" "Stick-together" so get your "Girls"(Girl-Friends) to help you set that other "ding-bat boob" of a woman straight!!! When you "Girls" have had enough of something, you will "reak-havock" and fix-it fast. So just be a WOMAN and go head-on into the problem now before it goes too far, and you beat that other woman senseless...
2006-08-04 04:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by 1moe4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him "is there anyone that you meet right away and dont like them right off the bat because theres no connection between the two of you? well thats how it is with me and ___[other moms name]___" or maybe say y dont you habg out with her since you seem to have no problem with her huh?
2006-08-04 04:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by some♥chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with someone you meet online to make him jealous
2006-08-04 05:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋