talk about how much he wishes he'd met this other woman before he was married and talk dirty to her?
2006-08-04 04:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never said it was me. Just asking. :) I see this situation happening to someone I know.
2006-08-04 04:46:12 · update #1
My friend once told me..."When you have Chicken Biriyani (Fancy Rice dish) everday sometimes you wish that you get some plain rice." People always want something more, if they have something then they want something else. If the marriage is perfect, and he wishes he had met a particular woman before they go married...it could mean that despite the fact he married his wife, there is a part of him that wants to be with that other woman, because he feels he would have had a better bond with her and that she would please him sexually by doing things his wife doesn't do.
Also, if he claims his marriage to be perfect, and still desires these things, then perhaps the marriage is NOT PERFECT...(note, there isn't anything in this world that is perfect...) and so, it could be that he has some regrets in regards to the marriage, and maybe needs to talk to his spouse about making things better so they can be happy.
Finally, to actually answer your question...if there was perfection in this world then, people would actually be satisfied with life and have no desires. Since there is no such thing as perfection, especially not in a marriage...I think that it's not nice to talk about another woman or even to express some sort of grief or loss due to marriage. Marriage is something people do because they love each other and are willing to make that committment...and if he has any regrets, he needs to realize that it's done and over with and he should try to be happy in his so called perfect world and life.
2006-08-04 04:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had respect for any of the parties involved he wouldn't. If he had respect for his wife, himself their family, or the young lady he would not say those things and act that way. He wishes that he met this other lady before he was married for no other reason than to be able to do those things and possibly sleep with her with no guilt or strings attached. And she needs to nip that situation in the bud from right now. If he is doing this to his wife then imagine what he will do to her.
2006-08-04 11:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. if he was in the perfect marrage which there is no such thing. He would talk ditry like that with you. If he says he wishes he met the other woman before being married
that tells me you're in trouble
2006-08-04 11:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Widowed dad in michigan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's missing out on something in his marriage if he is reminiscing about someone he " should " have done whatever with.
Why can't he talk dirty to his wife and be happy with that?
2006-08-04 11:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage is perfect. They all take a lot of work and the cooperation of both people.
2006-08-04 11:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he would not.he certainly shouldnt be "openly fantasizing"either if he has such a "perfect"marriage.maybe he should pay more attn;to his real wife¬ the "could've been"wife!!!
2006-08-04 11:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by bennyfan4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋