why is that parents always prefer one child than their other children?

Question

they will alwyas want their children to fellow in thw footsteps of that particullar child they favor the most . that is one of my big problems with my parents as i get older which has resulted in many war of words

Answer 1

Each child is different but yet in some ways alike. A good parent observes each child and gives to each child the nurturing that said child needs. Some children do need attention and guidance more than others. However, I am aware that you are correct in some instances. Maybe with you getting older, your parents feel that you already possess the necessary tools and knowledge to make it and your other sibling does not. Try to keep an open mind. After you do, and you truly know you are being ignored, talk to them about it. If that fails just pray for them. None of us are perfect. May God Bless.

Answer 2

Well honey, this goes all the way back to "Biblical Days" believe it or not........Gods, Favorite, was Able, and Cain, got jealous, of Able, getting shown, Favoritism, so he killed, Able......And, God, put some sort of "Curse" on him, for his, Punishment......The same thing happened with Jacob, favoring his youngest son, and the older brothers, gave him away, too the Farrow's people, only to become, Ruler, of the land later, and meeting up with his brothers, who needed food, years later........They all reconciled and the rest is in the Famous history book, we all call , the "Bible",,,, I favor, my youngest, daughter, over, all four, of my children, and the rest, I try so hard not to show it, too them, but I sense, they know........Its really hard not too, for me, she's a "Jewel", she's the only one, who ever helps me around the house, the only one, who ever seems, to care about my welfare, when, I'm sick, etc........If your an the "Favorite" , and you resent, being the "Favorite", then,, I suggest to you, too seperate, yourself, as you are of the age, to do so,,,If your not, and you see, favortism, with another sybling, then, I would still, try hard not to resent that "Favorite" child, because, its not their "Fault", and I would, stop all together, taking anything out, on that sybling, all together.......Its your "Parents" who are making you feel the way you do, not your sybling........Try to keep that in mind, because, at one point all 6, of us kids have been, our Moms favorite, and she doesn't know how to show, more than one, child at a time, favortism, but, as we got, older, we'd just seperate ourselves, from becoming her favorite........Becuase, the "Favorite" also, has too run her errands, now, and keep her company, and two of us, still have kids at home, to raise, and our own lives, to live, so we really dont have time, for doing too much, for Mom, anymore, and we feel bad, but, she has to understand, that keeping her ex, around is better for her, than depending on us.........I still help her, from time, to time, but, I also have medical problems, that slow me down, at times,and, I use to wish to God, one of my syblings would move, closer, to take some of Moms, arrends, off of my hands, you know........You just need to practice, sort of being on the "Outside-Looking-In", you know, so you can get a "Better Perspective" on things, so you can, better, look at things, and try to figure out the Best way , to deal with it all, you know what I mean........Good-Luck, to you!!!

Answer 3

choice is always at 1