What do you do if you feel alone in your relationship?

Answer 1

If I was to ever feel alone in my relationship I would confront my fiance and explain to her these feelings. I would certainly not bottle these feeling up as they would rot away inside. My best advice to you would be to communicate with your partner and be honest explaining why and how your feeling. Good luck and I wish you a fulfilling relationship.

Answer 2

It depends on the situation and how long the alone feelings have been occuring. If it has been a week, then I would say you are just going through a rough patch as all relationships do, if you have felt that way for the duration of your relationhip, then I would say that the relationship you are in is not meant to be. Of course, no relationship should be just given up on, trying talking to your spouse, maybe he/she doesn't realize that you feel that way. Sometimes I feel like I am alone in my relationship. I have been married for five years and my husband works 12-14 hour days at work, so I really only see him on the weekends, except on the weekends he has his son (every other), so technically I see him 4 days a month! Some days it bothers me because he is too tired to talk or too busy to talk, but I realize that moments like that do pass, and then we will be on to the next good time together. I love him more than anything, and I would definitely (and have) talk to him about my feelings before doing anything drastic.

Answer 3

People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.

Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.

Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.

Answer 4

Yep, I agree with above, if the other person isn't giving enough to make you feel part of the relationship then what's the point. I will talk to your partner and tell them how you feel, if they don't think they can give you any more then it might be time to move on.

Answer 5

Maybe who you are with is not the right person for you. That is not how you are supposed to feel in a good relationship. I think I would look for someone else.

Answer 6

Go to counseling, if you haven't already. If that doesn't work or if they won't go then it may be time to move on. You should never feel alone in your relationship and if you do and they won't do anything to change it then they obviously don't really love you.

Answer 7

Tell your spouse how you feel and see if you two can work on the relationship. Develop other interests and friendships outside of the relationship so you're not relying too much on your spouse.

Answer 8

Figure out where the disconnect is coming from and do what it takes to fix it.
Sometimes that means walking away and sometimes it means making your partner aware that you are in the relationship together and it takes two to make it work.

Answer 9

Find a new relationship (NOT CHEATING) break up with your current and move on. If you feel lonely when someone is suppose to be there for you, then its time to break it off and move on. Good luck.

Answer 10

Mr. Chivalry says, "Let your partner know that you are feeling this way. If your partner cares, then things will be done to help you feel better in that respect. If not, then it is time to find someone else that will make you feel happier."

Mr. Chivalry has spoken.