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I am sure a lot of people you are not aware of like you.

I like you and all I know is that you think nobody likes you and that you are pretty.

2006-08-04 04:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by OneRunningMan 6 · 0 0

If "nice" and "pretty" made us "likeable", there would be many, many folks who would have more friends than they could count. First, understand that being nice and being pretty has nothing to do with how or why people like us. It is what is inside that always remains true. When you are liked by people there are a combination of reasons - some of which include - your ability to make people feel needed, wanted, comfortable around you and others, your dedication and commitment to friendship, your values of yourself and your life, your character - loyalty, trust, sharing honesty, consideration, love, patriotism, responsibility, integrity. How you relate all of these attributes to others. Your spiritual awareness to do the right thing and love others in spite of them not loving you - these are the ingrediants that make a person likeable. And believe me when I tell you, it does not happen overnight. These are traits that we learn and process throughout our lives. It's the 'stuff' that make us who we really and truly are. Sometimes you will find others who don't agree with your values. You have to understand that it's not "YOU" they hate, or dislike - but what you represent because they cannot see those traits in themselves. Human nature - an animal you will have to grow to understand. So, don't think that people don't like you - you might have to stop and check out your character traits.

2006-08-04 04:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0 0

There is nothing wrong with you. It is nice to hear that you think that way of yourself because you should always feel good about yourself and not have to wait for someone else to tell you. If you are referring to females, most of them are jealous and want to be the one to get all the attention, which is just really immature. Men or boys just don't know what the hell they want. They are usually just running around wanting to have a good time without responsibilities. You will gradually find the right people to enter your world and it will all be worth the wait. You give me the impression that you are a wonderful individual. Keep it that way and don't follow the ignorance of others. Have a good day.

2006-08-04 04:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0 0

How did you come to the conclusion that nobody liked you?
Are you being shunned in the hallways?

Perhaps, you want specific people to like you and they won't
so you are generalizing to the rest of humanity?

I think if you are more specific: "Why doesn't THIS person
like me" ... you have an easier time getting what you want.

Certainly, there are personality traits that will turn off most
people (conceitedness is one of them), but I don't think that's
what is going on here.

Why is it so important to be liked by that person? Maybe you
are trying to hard and they feel you are clingy?

2006-08-04 04:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0 0

OK i think i you're nice and pretty, than someone HAS to like you esp nice people. if you're talking about like you as in a crush on you maybe they do but they are too shy OR maybe you are nice but really shy so they are worried about just coming up to you and scaring you off. and for every people thinks they are well hated there are at least 10 people who like them, even if secretly. and don't be discouraged by the people here who may think you're conceited, if this is a real question, you are trying to state real facts so they can build judgment from that and answer your question. and don't worry about what others think of you, think about your self importance and truely value your self, and perhaps if will reflect and others will like you as well.

Good luck

2006-08-04 17:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That's a double negative. Saying "nobody doesn't" like you, is saying everybody does like you.

Grammar might be a good place to start.

And you probably come off as desperate with them, as you do asking that here. Relax. Your worth shouldn't be dependent on what others think, anyway.

2006-08-04 04:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't now, i don't now you. But it not that if you're nice and pretty all people should like you. You have to have personality, your own ideas. Me for example I don't like people that are easily manipulated, and that are changing their opinion just to be accepted easily. You should also try to find people that you like, and whit who you feel comfortable. Oh, and you cant be always nice to everybody, because sometimes is necessary to speck up, even if you hurt some feelings of other people. If you accept everything, than people will always try to use you.

2006-08-04 04:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Luna 3 · 0 0

Hey Marissa,

There could be lots of reasons why you perceive that nobody likes you.

Maybe you try too hard! Maybe you talk too much, Maybe you gossip about people, maybe you are immature, maybe you are trying to make friends with the wrong group of people.

Depending on your age, (School vs. Working) - School age can be brutal for friends. When you get to working age, things are different.

Try to find people with common interests. Hey, you did - Yahoo answers! I like you.

Oh, yea, be sure you like yourself! That is important for your self confidence.

2006-08-04 04:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 0 0

Nobody likes you? That's ridiculous. You haven't MET everyone yet!

But seriously, folks ... Are you SURE you're nice? Are you hanging out with the right people?

2006-08-04 04:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by kreevich 5 · 0 0

It's difficult to answer that question when none of us know you. If you really feel like people just don't like you, I suggest talking to someone closer to you about it. Or maybe you're just feeling down for the moment, think about the people that do like you and how much fun you have with them. If you are young, then I wouldn't worry about it, everyone feels like that when they are between the ages of 12-16 (ish). Just be yourself.

2006-08-04 04:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by mod girl 2 · 0 0

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