how can i know if a guy likes me?

Answer 1

Well some of it has to do with personality and some with attractiveness. Things to consider:

1. Does he make time to fit you into his schedule?
2. Do you share things that you don't tell anyone else?
3. Does he smile a lot around you?
4. Do you like him?

If you answer yes to all of those questions, its likely that he likes you. Especially if your eyes, and body language convey your fondness, and he responds correcty. For example, when you talk to him and make a movement, do his core body movements, sort of coorespond? Does he make an effort to agree on things you disagree on?

Answer 2

This is such a universal question in either direction! *.~

I am going to agree with Caffeine_Freak (sounds like my boyfriend w/ the name and the response!). It really is about personality and attraction. The rest falls together after that. Many times we normally notice people first on their looks (because you haven't said anything yet!) and then try to make an assessment of how to approach. Once a conversation is going, the courtier will try to accommodate the courted person by trying to agree with some aspects of a conversation. If it’s a topic that the courtier wouldn’t normally agree with, they’ll do their best to find common ground or not voice their views at all. The courtier usually tries to find common ground so they can work and build on it, if they are interested. They listen to interests and try to figure out if they are interested to, or if it’s interesting enough to try. Hey some guys might’ve never gone to a play if the object of their desire hadn’t expressed and interest. Unless they really hate it, they will make the effort to see one so there is something to talk about, or even make it a ‘date’.

You also have to make sure the type of guy you are dealing with. Some guys do a lot of things that could be signs of a sure thing and it’s only to leave when they just arrived. So keep an eye open and assess personality and friends and also his body signs. Aside from him making all the gestures CF mentioned, is it exclusive to you? Does he make the same gestures to other women? Does he focus on you or does he lean away from you as he is laughing at your joke and is looking at his surroundings and other women passing by? Even if you aren’t dating him yet, these are clues also in just how interested he is in you. Does he think you are nice and potential but wants to keep/look available just in case someone else comes along he finds more interesting? Or is he completely into you? Do people look at you and go by as if nothing or do they see you guys and smile b/c they think you are a couple? Sometimes what’s not obvious to us is obvious to others. Go out with good friends and inquire later about there thoughts and be as general as possible. If they think he’s into you, there is a good chance he is. It also all depends on the age factor. Younger guys don’t know how to compose themselves yet and they learn through trial and error. Older ones are usually able to express without offense that they are interested, but everyone is always shy, no one likes to be rejected.

Stay cool! If you are interested, chances are you are giving him signs too without knowing and he’s coming to you because he sees them. Be friends and talk. Remember, if it takes off the best thing you’ll have to a partner is a best friend. A partner in crime. If it doesn’t, at least he’s someone you can talk to or be amicable with. You don’t want to be with someone who you really cannot stand to be with or listen too and the other way around too.

Best of luck!

Answer 3

You never can be too sure. You can assume it if you watch how they act. The best way is to ask. See if they feel that way. He shouldn't hide his feelings if he does. You never know.

Answer 4

u cam tell 4rom 2 ways...................... 1 hes always playing around making u laugh...having ur back!.....2 they always mess withu and they call u names... 2 get u mad ... and there trying to make u think that they dont like u ...when they really do...