If a female said no, but then agreed because he said would cause him pain if he didn't have sex, is it sex or rape?
What if, while they were in the garage, the female said no, he closed the garage door and said he wouldn't open it until she agreed, so she agreed.
In both cases it was the same two people and both were very young. The first instance described happened before the second.
2006-08-04 03:56:19 · 20 answers · asked by Jackie H 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Definately YES...she said NO & was manipulated...the idiot should be held accountable for his actions.
2006-08-04 04:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first is not rape, he guilted you into it, but still not rape. The second case, if he didn't force you to stay in the garage, then it's not rape either.
Stay away from the guy and when you say no mean it and follow through with it.
2006-08-04 11:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by mommafrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first situation, I'd say it was NOT rape since she agreed. The second situation, I'd say YES, it is rape. She was being forced to stay in the garage until she agreed to have sex with him. She needs to tell someone (her parents or th epolice) especially since it's the same guy doing this sh*t to her!
2006-08-04 11:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to demand sex from you at any time. You are the one who will be hurt by this, not him. Men have to learn to respect women when they say no. He is a liar if he says, not having sex will cause him pain. Men will say anything to get what they want. Not allowing you to leave when you want, is a crime and you should tell your parents and the police. Both situations are rape. I hope you will never find yourself in that situation.
2006-08-12 10:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Rape is any unwanted sexual advances! this boy tricked her into having sex! oh, it would cause him pain if he didn't have it- such bull****! and he intimidated her as well by saying that he wouldn't open the garage door unless she had sex with him!
it doesn't matter which incident occurred first, it's still rape.
2006-08-12 06:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both times, the perpertrator got the victim to act against their own wishes with emotional blackmail..or with a threat. The girl agreed out of fear and intimidation....many would say that she didn't have to do it, but I disagree...she was scared into it. If she thinks it was rape...and feels guilty about it, it should be reported...never see the boy again...
2006-08-12 06:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both DEFINITELY rape because the girl said NO! If anyone says no but is still forced to do it for any reason whether its being held down and being beaten or just being held hostage but there is no violence, it is STILL rape because one person doesn't want to do it. I would certainly press charges against this jerk. You don't want this to happen to some other innocent person do you?
2006-08-12 02:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both are rape...but why did you go in the garage the first time???
2006-08-11 18:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one would not be rape but then he is a fag and a loner i say run until u cant run no more but the second one depends how he was doing it like if he bound u and forced a yes out its rape and u should consult a cop
2006-08-04 11:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by hidden bi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both rape. The first is coercion after a definite no, and the second is obvious rape. There is no consent after coercion.
2006-08-08 11:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
niether is rape ur just easy to trick into having sex. if i was u i'd stay away from people that manipulate you, and i would also go see a shrink because u obviously have low self respect or sumthing!
2006-08-04 12:00:26 · answer #11 · answered by jnnybartos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋