my girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now she is unsure about everything?

Question

In the last few weeks she has said she is unhappy. I recently graduated from college ans she is still in school. I chose a job around the area we both went to college. Now she is not only unsure about us but about herself. She says she worries about not being able to see me often and how with me in the "real world" things will be different. But she says she still loves me. I dont know what to do.

Answer 1

This is a crucial time in both of your lives... She is surely worried about her final years at college, and you are just starting out in your carreer. Both of you have immense stress in your lifes, and then add a 2 year relationship that needs attention and your both over loaded. She probably just feels bogged down, and maybe she feels like she is holding you back. just talk to her about it. Let her know that you sincerely care about her, and eventually want to take this relationship to the next level, If she eases off about the uncertainty with everything, then you know you did good. If she doesnt, then it may be time for both of you to let it go and move on with your lives. Good luck.

Answer 2

does your gf got into another relationships before? she is just being insecure, he is so scared if you meet another better gal in your work place and start to leave her gradually. it is natural for her to be worried. all you can do, if you trully love her, try to comfront her, she needs your help to help her understand your goal and your purpose. there are alot of guys who dont comfront their gf good because alot of guys are short temper and less patience, that why ultimately their relationship ends. if you really wants to be with her , then you should help her , talk with her, everytime she starts talkin this topic, you have to comfront her, by time, she will trust you and get mature too. and remember you also have to spare time with her and when you cant coz too tired or w/e, dun be mean at her, just keep being patience, she will trust you ;)

Answer 3

MAN LET HER KNOW THAT NOTHING WILL CHANGE. (BUT DONT SELL HER A DREAM). BE WITH HER ALL THE WAY THROUGH. SHE NEEDS SECURITY, SENSITIVITY MAYBE SOME SEX....