my girlfreind after a year and a half went back prostituing for drugs?

Question

i have done everything possible to help her out for the last year and half now she is in the hospital should i call the police and let them know she has 3 warrants. she refuses to talk to me about anything she just hangs up on me evertime i call her

Answer 1

when you call the police....do you think that is going to help? leave her alone and find someone that appreciates you.....she will have to find her way out of this life that she created by herself.

Answer 2

if i were u i would still try 2 help her cuz she really does need somebody there 2 help ha out, she probably doesn't know that at the moment but she will find out sooner or later when she gets hurt, but try 2 turn her in because that can be the best thing 4 her at the moment, because if u turn ha in then she will go 2 jail 4 selling and doing drugs and when she in jail she cant do it anymore so that is going 2 be really good 4 her but try 2 be a good friend don't be mean 2 her cuz then she will think u were trying 2 hurt her and not help her and she most likely wouldn't cooperate with u so be kool whenever u talk 2 her but be real at the same time and it should work 4 her k

Answer 3

I think you should try one last time to talk to her. No raised voices, just calm communication. Communication is key to any relationship. Along with love and trust. She sounds like she has a serious problem and needs professional help. I'm half anf half on the calling the police. On one side the police could find her the help they need in the facilities, they have counslers and doctors on staff 24/7, but I also think you have to let her make her own choices.

Karma.. it comes back.

Answer 4

Yes report her. At least it will get her off the streets and away from the prostitution and drugs for a while. Keep her in your prayers but realize that you are not her savior. She has to have the desire to turn her life around and she can only acquire that turning her life over to God. HE makes all things possible. You must move on and live your own life. Get tested to ensure your health status because her lifestyle could have endangered you. Stop calling her. She knows where you are. Don't be co-dependent. It will suck the life out of you.

Answer 5

Sometimes you need to give someone what I call tough love. I know you love her but she's gotta learn. Call the police on her esp. if you really care about her and want her to get help. But you can't really help people like that they gotta help theyself. When you finally realize that, you'll have the strength you need to let her go until she does right. I'm not into judging people but it's no need in wasting your life or your time. Life is too short baby. You are a good man and you deserve better. And when she sees you with someone and she sees you are happy she's gonna either want you back or she's gonna say forget you. But you need to be happy.

Answer 6

If you love her than yes you have to do everything possible or she might end up 6 feet under. i also know that there is only so much we can do and then we have to let go. You cant help someone that doesnt want it. She has to hit her bottom. In A.A. and N.A. that means the s*** has to really hit the fan(like going to jail) before they will wake up. Good luck, i know from experiance how hard it is to deal with an addict,when you love them. Remember its a disease and they really cant control themselves.

Answer 7

You have to do what you believe in your head is right not your heart I am not trying to sound mean but if you follow your heart it will tell you no but your head probably says call and yes she may hate you but then maybe she will get the help that she needs you as one person can only do so much for her and you will tear yourself up mentally physically and emotionally you are not being a jerk by a calling you are only being someone who wants her to get the help that she needs

Answer 8

It may sound stupid but yes call the police..at least she will be off the streets..and maybe she will think about what this kind of life is doing to her...She keeps up and she will be dead..So yes for her own good tell the police

Answer 9

If you truly love her call the police and then move on. Try to get her in rehab, if you cant do that then you cant do that. But if you truly love her you will do whats best for the both of you calling the cops and leaving her, or trying to get her in a rehab.

Answer 10

I say Dont call the police, Dont ever talk to her again and go to the local health clinic and get yourself tested. Common diseases such as Chlamydia, Gonoreah, and syphillus can cause permanent sterilization!