There is this guy that I went to homecoming dance with last fall and we kissed.But the next time I saw hime I told him that I just wanted to be friends, but now i want him back. The only problem is that a good friend of mine is dating him. What should I do? I feel betrayed by my friend and I want my guy back.
2006-08-04 03:42:01 · 13 answers · asked by crazynlad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wrote him a letter this spring telling him how I felt but he kind of just blew it of and said that another friend(not the one he is dating) told him that I hated him which was totally not true.
2006-08-04 03:57:49 · update #1
Then how do I forget about this guy?
2006-08-04 04:02:15 · update #2
You need to realise two important issues here:
1) You will lose your friendship with the 'good friend' if you express your true feelings for the mentioned guy,
2) You are making the guy confused. One moment, you exchange kisses, next moment you play the role of Snow Queen. And now that winter's over, you want him to spring back into your life. Are you being fair to him? Honestly, guys find this kind of relationship games a mega turn-off.
If you really feel that he's everything you really yearn for in a guy, then risk the friendship you have with this 'good friend' and come clean with this guy about your true feelings about him.
But if you feel that you don't wish to hurt two people in the process of your impulsive emotional journey, then leave them be. Honestly, losing this guy helps you grow up. Sometimes it's through pain and sorrow that we become stronger and wiser.
I know it may sound a bit blatant, but there isn't such thing as 'I want my guy back'. What makes you so sure the guy wants to be treated like a commodity, being shoved about to and fro? Leave things in its natural course; if this guy's yours, he's yours for keeps. If he isn't, he'll always be beyond grasp.
2006-08-04 03:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
you should be better than than, when u told him u wanted to be friends, what was wrong with him? Now that he is dating a friend, please give up or else have a secret affair with him that you friend won't find out about. This means you will have to tell him.
Alternatively am single too and looking for someone to share lots with
2006-08-04 03:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tumze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of what happends all the time. Just find someone else, you may not think so (I know I didn't think so) but there are plenty of people you will meet in your life. Don't be quick to get back any guy. After all there are plenty of them. If he comes back to you, then go for it.
2006-08-04 03:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by caffiene_freek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of friend is she? If she's a good friend she wouldn't be dating your ex. True Friends will never go out with a friend ex. Against the rules you hear me. Look, if he's talking to your friend and he knows she's your good friend looks as if you need to let him go. He's not no good.
2006-08-04 03:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some gay adult males date bisexuals. others do no longer. it relies upon on the guy and what he believes. for my section and as a bisexual myself, i see no ingredient in a gay guy figuring out to no longer date you entirely as a results of fact of your sexuality. that would in simple terms prepare that the guy isn't looking previous that and into your guy or woman, the place he must be looking.
2016-09-28 21:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason that you want him now is because your friend is dating him.
2006-08-04 03:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by csandre2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Not worth humilating yourself (they guy said he didn't like you that way) or loosing a friend (neither of you will like in him time next year anyway).
2006-08-04 03:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 09:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our regrets, don't feel betrayed , your gf saw something in him that you didn't until it was to late...now you just have to wait your turn.
2006-08-04 03:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be then it will be. I would almost tell him how you feel and see what happens. Does your friend know how you feel??
2006-08-04 03:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by lostinlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋