i like this guy but we r just friends right now should i ask him out, or wait and see if he will ever ask me?

Question

idk what to do? please help

Thank you ALL for answering me question, i think i will ask him out to the movies,,, again thanks it was a big help
xoxo

Answer 1

Ask him out. If you sit around waiting for other folks to ask you out, you run the risk of being very alone for a good long time, because they might be too shy themselves.

And if the mere act of asking him out ruins the friendship, then I'm sorry, but that wasn't much of a friendship to begin with. A good friend will be able to say "No thanks, not interested in *that*" and still be able to remain friends with you. (Whether you're good enough of a friend to be able to remain friends with him after such a rejection is for you to decide.)

Answer 2

Maybe I am just from the old school but I believe a 'lady' should wait and always be asked out. Let's put it this way, if you ask him you are sending him signals that you do not want to convey. He'll probably be thinking, what kind of girl is this, she is asking me out, she must be easy. Well any girl that will ask me out must definitely have some 'experience' and I can treat her like I want to. After all she asked me, I didn't ask her. I know that is what I'd tell my son. If all you want is a 'partner'(you know what I mean), he probably will accept. What normal hot-blooded male wouldn't? And in that case you need to go fast and pray anyway and ask God for deliverance. But if you are looking for something long term, I suggest not. The Word Of God says that he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Not she that findeth a husband............Trust me sweetheart, he will go out with you and do his 'business' and when he wants a wife, he will seek someone else. I don't care what he tell you. May God Bless

Answer 3

Start by dropping little hints, and see how he reacts. If he cools off toward you, just be friends. If he doesn't seem to get the hints, then go ahead and ask him out. I'd try hinting first though, 'cause usually guys like to do the asking first.

Answer 4

If u like him, so I don't see what the big deal is come on ask him out.

Answer 5

Yesterday, I told my best guy friend how I feel about him. And it seems that he feels the same. We're going on a date next week and are going to see how it works out. I'd say, go for it, he may feel the same.

Answer 6

set a time limit if he doesnt ask u in a month or hint that he likes u by then tell him how u feel and see if he wants to give dating a shot

Answer 7

take my advice! go up to him and ask him if he wants to go get a cup of coffee and then tell him on the way there or when you are at a table tell him the way you feel about him. the direct rout is always the best route!

Answer 8

Just go ahead, If you like someone, do not be just traditional age girl. Do not be a looser.

Some guys, have so many things going on except girls. They do not mind being single, with little thought about girls.

Answer 9

IF YOU LOVE A GUY AND YOU ARE JUST FREINDS AND ALSO YOU ASK HIM IF HE LOVE YOU OR NOT OR WAIT UNTIL HE DID SO MY SUGGESTION IS ASK HIM BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T YOU WILL ALWAYS THINKING AND SAYS HE LOVE ME OR NO AND IF YOU WANNA DO ANYTHING LIKE FOR EXAMPLE STUDY YOU WILL THINK ABOUT HIM NOT STUDY WHAT EVER YOU WILL MAKE YOU WILL THINK SO YOU WILL DIDN'T DO ANYTHING SO ASK HIM

Answer 10

Normally relationship begins as friends. Love is life... give him time, don't kick him out, wait a little longer...hahaha.