would you rather have sex or make love?

Question

hmm?

stop saying its the same thing because its not. and sure, **** can be another option.

Answer 1

make love..because the reason you do the act is out of love..I guess the difference between having sex and making love is that just having sex seem to connote lust..or just doing it simply to satisfy bodily pleasures..a sexual desire without having real and deep feelings for the person you're doing it with..though it seems to mean or refer the same thing..as making love is also having or doing sex..but having and doing it with passion and love for that one true person..you really..truly feel and love..

Answer 2

Great question! And yes, there is a big difference between the two. I honestly like them both equally. Both ways provide variety, which is essential. Of course the circumstances dictate which takes place. Making love is sensual, and involves romance: maybe a candle lit dinner , some beautiful mood music, perhaps a fireplace, taking your time, a lot of foreplay, etc. Sex can be mutual wham bam thank you mamm hard core rock 'em sock'em blow your mind rough and tumble-- and take place anytime , anywhere, morning noon or night, in the kitchen, in the garage, on the beach, in the boathouse, in the shower , in the woods, in the car, against the wall because I want you or I need you right now.

Was that as good for you as it was for me?

Answer 3

There's a huge difference. Making love implies emotions and feelings. Sex is sex. When two people truly love each other, it does not matter how rough and sweaty and nasty and freaky it gets because of the feelings they share they are still making love.
I love to have sex but I love making love a thousand times more.
Making love is so much more fulfilling.

Answer 4

I rather both sometimes.. Mostly make love because it make's me org alot more and it feels way diffrent ( in good ways ) But sometimes I like to just have sex as well,, When just have sex with the same person that you make love too gives the the moments and time to think and fantaze and someone that you think is cute or sexy,,, it gives and your partner the expirence of othr ways to please one another... diffrently,,,, I like my cake and I eat it to,, I also work it off as well....

Answer 5

I wish I lived in a world where people only made love. (I know, who am I kidding?!?!)

It's a real turn off to know that's all men think about (sex). These are the same little bastards that knocked us down in the school yards and told us we were gross.

Now look at them.......sex, sex, sex!!!

Yeah, I've got some anger issues. MAYBE it's cause men don't know how to make love. Ohhh, but they'd never think that was "their" problem..........................blah.. blah.. blah................

Sorry, bad mood today.

Answer 6

making love includes having sex, but having sex does not include making love. I'd rather make love in a hundred different ways.

Answer 7

That is hard to decide. Each has its own time & place. Sometimes I need the closeness & intimacy of making love but, sometimes I need the sheer passion of just having sex.

Answer 8

Hmmm depends on my mood...if I feel aggressive or say fired up sometimes carnal sex is the best thing....and when you feel sweet, emotional, vulnerable or wanting to be close to your significant other making love is good.

Have a good one--JGirl.

Answer 9

Depends on the mood, moment and setting. Sometimes you just want to f#%k, but most of the time it's better to make love.

Answer 10

always make love... it's intimate and passionate as for sex it's more of lust, pleasuring oneself in need for a partner and fill in the h**** feeling... I can't understand why people go for sex not for love... as with love you can have both and eventually have everything you want while sex doesn't...