i have a boyfriend of 3 yrs now and we love eachother very much but i have dreams that i cant find him in my dreams. like i look for him everywhere but i can never find him what does it mean?
2006-08-04 03:26:05 · 20 answers · asked by Sandra 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are afraid he will leave you, or, you aren't feeling close to him.
2006-08-04 03:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dream analysis is very subjective and pretty inaccurate unless the person analyzing the dream is familiar with you and your past. But it seems like you have some anxiety about losing your boyfriend. This could simply be your subconcious trying to make you aware of something you are a afraid of. If this is really bothering you I would suggest seeking out a counselor an talking to them about this anxiety. By doing this you may come to realization.
2006-08-04 10:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by levindis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Acctually, When you get worried about this type of dreams that means there is something bothering you as only you for sure and its not about beeing afraid of loosing him... something that you dont even know yourself... I think this doesnt have anthing to do about him.. its more about yourself... though it also could be that You cant live without him and your afraid of a deeper commitment? or there is something he is doing that is bothering you that you dont like...? or that you wanna see if you could be without him? if you have these type of dreams a lot I think you should try to calm down and not stress about your bf your saying he loves you why would he leave? And if your inlove with him then its a strong relationship if you trust eachother and what you are saying to eachother .. without trust there is no relationship!
2006-08-04 10:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by The Light In The Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by loving someone does not necessarily you will have to find him / her in dreams.
Dreaming of someone could mean you are thinking of it. That shows your emotion need is not enough in the day time. That is why some people dream of it at night too. However, sometimes if you dream of someone, it could be hatred too.
I won't worry about that at all if I were you. Not dreaming about him is way better than dreaming he is cheating you in dream!!
2006-08-04 10:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are scared you might lose him........have you done something you should not have or are you two not as close as you say? Dreams are a way for our deepest fears and worries to come out. So look deep girl!
2006-08-04 10:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Blue W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have a less-than-conscious fear of being abandoned, and your MIND is simply acting out this fear in your dreams. The MIND often acts out our fears in dreams.... as a means of "venting" the energy generated by repressing the fears.
2006-08-04 10:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by docjp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dreams are your minds way of sorting out your conscious problems subconsciously.you are probably afraid of losing him and his love so your mind is trying to sort it out. don't read into it too much. it's just your mind trying to keep you sane in this insane world.
2006-08-04 10:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you feel that the two of you do not communicate enough/well enough? I'm no expert, but that's what I would think.
Or you could be afraid of losing him through other gf, death, work, something else.
2006-08-04 10:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by grinningleaf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I actually know this your subconcience is trying to tell you that you will lose him when in fact you probably wont its just your psychie filling you with doubts
2006-08-04 10:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by shuto... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are affraid to lose him Do you feel guilty about anything or are you fearful of something that he may be doing?
2006-08-04 10:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the man of your dreams. not true love.
2006-08-04 10:30:11 · answer #11 · answered by hunter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋