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2006-08-04 03:25:51 · 14 answers · asked by chota chatri 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sounds like this is a question for the singles/dating section...
True love means giving someone the freedom to do what they want or need to do. So if you actually love that person, you'll want them to be happy, and you'll respect their love for another.
2006-08-04 03:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by locolady98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait and let them go. It's cliche, but you can't make them love you. And forcing it now could damage the relationship long-term. It's no fun to wait. But even if two people are perfect for each other, it might never work out because the timing is never right. It takes more than just perfect compatibility to make the right relationship. But some day, with someone, all of the pieces will come together, and it will be great.
2006-08-04 10:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free to wait around and see what happens with the other relationship for awhile and even a bit longer if you are very young.
Don't sit and wait too long with your heart closed off to others though or you may miss the chance for a good marriage with a good person who loves you and miss having your children (if you are a woman). While it's never too late in life to find a good person who loves you, it can be too late for women to have children - the older you get the harder it is to get pregnant. I know. I clung to hopeless love for too long and kept my heart and mind shut to others. While I thought I was open and searching I was still clinging on to this other person. This just doesn't work! I also did it more than once! Though I found a good husband eventually it was so late I'll never likely be able to have children. This is something that you can't afford to "learn from experience" if you are a woman. You may think you don't want children but could change your mind.
If you are a man and don't care if the woman you marry is your age you have all of the time you want to sit around and wait. Men's fertility does decline with age though. And we never know how long our life will be. But, men are better able to sit and wait than women are if children are desired.
However, while you are waiting examine why you love this person? What is it about this person? Do they have qualities that you admire? If they do, then develop these qualities in yourself. And, do they really have these qualities or is it a sort of why of externalizing these qualities onto someone who may not deserve your love and admiration.
And, examine your definition of love. The Greeks had many words for love. Mother nature in an effort to preserve the species can fool us into thinking that "eros" or sexual attraction is "love". We may be sexually attracted or "in love" with someone who is not a good person and who may be bad for us and who may be in another relationship. The best solution for this is to run and hide until you get over it. If not, you are in for a miserable life.
And, there is more than one person on this planet who you may be "in love" with or "love" and whatever your definition this is so.
Whatever you do, keep heart and mind open or you may bypass many "nice people" who could make you very happy and give you a good life.
2006-08-04 11:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by MURP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suffer. For awhile. Eat chocolate, pizza, doughnuts, and various other junk food.
Watch sappy old movies and cry. Alot.
Get on with our lives.....
Get over it.
Fall in love again.
Repeat as often as desired.
Or, you could do it God's way, and just be patient. Quit jumping at the first handsome/pretty face that smiles at you, and get to know someone as a friend BEFORE you decide that you're "in love"....that actually works alot better, and you don't gain so much weight!
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2006-08-04 10:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will ease the feeling of love and then when you let go, someone else can come into your life. Sometimes this takes a long time, and for others, it can happen more quickly.
2006-08-04 10:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chota chatri....aisi cool situation baar baar nahi aati so enjoy it a bit then go for someone else.
take care :)
2006-08-04 11:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard to see some 1 u love ... love some1 else. but i wud take it in my stride. be happy for him or her. try not to see them together. look for some 1 who loves me & not whom I love
2006-08-04 10:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no option left.. accept the fact n move on.. try to keep urself busy.. make new good pals
2006-08-04 10:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we love someone he/she and he/she loves another one so we have to agree with that because in this case you can do nothing or you can prove to he/she you love her/him
2006-08-04 10:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by marinad m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up, find someone else.
2006-08-04 10:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋