I joined a fitness center with my wife and we have been going for about a month now. On Mondays and Wends when I run there is a totally attractive woman there who runs, too. I notice. Last night I I was lifting and she came and used the machine right across from me. I must have looked like an idiot trying NOT to look. If I am so happily married, why does this happen?
2006-08-04 03:20:51 · 16 answers · asked by gunrunner 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Go on Teusday and Thursday. You love your wife- remove the temptation. Work out with your wife.You'll both be happier for it. Just my opinion. Hope this helps.
2006-08-04 03:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my husband for 16 years (10 of it boyfriend girlfriend) I used to get p*ssed when he looked because I thought he was thinking "God, look at her isn't she gorgeous" but that was not he case guys look (women do to) but if you don't act on it then it's not a problem. Some women are very pretty (no I'm not weird or anything just a fact) and you are just looking at something if you continue to stare then that's weird but looking in itself is not bad. Just remember don't TOUCH! Kind of like when u where a kid and ur parents always said you can LOOK but Don't TOUCH!!!
2006-08-04 10:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by wolfpack0810 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your normal, annoying but normal. Don't hurt your wife by staring. Say to your wife in a none lusty voice, Don't you think that woman is attractive? What do you think about that guy over there he's attractive too. Believe it or not us women look too. So remember it's okay to look but don't touch unless you want to get a divorce!
2006-08-04 10:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if women are not meant to be looked upon by men, then they should be wrapped in paper bags from head to toe...they should not spend so much on clothes, make up, plastic surgeries to look pretty....they should all move to afghanistan where they will only be fitted with the black colored burqa !! so...it's normal to have wandering eyes even when you are happily married (unless you are gay !!)
2006-08-04 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by jims_bong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she is noticing you too. Wandering eyes can be hurtful to your spouse and eventually hurt you as well. A quick, friendly smile is fine, you are allowed to notice the opposite sex. But don't drag it out.
2006-08-04 10:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by j_pawling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wandering eyes are not bad. As I always tell my "worse half", you can look but don't touch" hahahaha
Besides ~ who says your better half isn't looking ??
Is very human and very natural. Just be polite and not stare hon.
2006-08-04 10:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Patti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex use to say God gave me sight to see so I'm going to look.That's why he's my ex,he didn't just looked he touched ended up cheating.
2006-08-04 10:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause mabe you are not happily married
2006-08-04 10:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by The Eddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothers women more than men. Stay faithful, but enjoy your surroundings.
2006-08-04 10:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Diesel Weasel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Cause you're human. Looking isn't a problem (I've never minded it in my bfs); it's acting that's the problem.
2006-08-04 10:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by grinningleaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋