He goes back and tell him everything I told her. I go a restraining order on my ex-boyfriend. And so since he can't see what I am doing he gets his friend drunk, and he tells him every thing from the time I woke up, to the time I go to sleep at night. I stop calling my friend as much and telling her things but now she is getting angry at me because I wont tell her anything. And although I don't like lying I go around the truth so she will not have anything to tell him? What should do we have been friends for a long time, but I can't seem to trust her long enough to keep her mouth shut.
2006-08-04 03:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Nita C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ditch her.
You're supposed to be able to trust your friends. You shouldn't have to be worried whether they'll narc on you or not.
2006-08-04 03:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her ***...She knows she is trifling. She's mad at you because she has no gossip material. The length of time of a so called friendship doesn't validate the depth or genuine nature of the friendship. She obviously is not a true friend. This girl running her mouth and telling your business is a true testament to that. Ask yourself what does she bring to the friendship?
2006-08-04 10:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by bklyngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... your friend probally just wants to fit in with everyone or she is very dramtic.... you can never let a friendship go over a guy... if she tells him... so what... let her tell... it's not that big of a deal and it could be a lot worse... talk to her about how that really upsets you and kinda hint around to her that you are not going to keep having her around if she keeps doing that. Sometimes you have to be a little aggresive towards other people to let them know how you really feel about what they are doing.... good luck..
2006-08-04 10:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ann M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you are doing the right thing by telling her NOTHING! and if she gets angry with you then tell her straight "I don't tell you anything because I can't trust you to keep your mouth shut!" and if that doesn't get the message home then nothing will.
if you can't trust your friend then move on. if i were you i would definitely find a friend that you can trust. with friends like that who needs enemies?
:)
2006-08-04 10:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop your so called friend because they are not a friend at all.
2006-08-04 10:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Fiyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them u don't need friends like those believe me..
2006-08-04 10:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by meshan_heek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋