My mom and dad made me move away from my boyfriend and we moved out of the usa and my parents say that my boyfriend didnt love me he only loved my money and i said that wasnt true and my parents said that his parents think if would ever get married that he would be taken care of and if he didnt love me he would still act like it and i love him and everything and i asked him if this was true and he said HELL NO!!! i isnt i love you more than anything. i dont know what to believe either my parents or the person that i love i cry myself to sleep most nights cause i feel sooo lost and i cant myself anymore. When i was with my boyfriend he made me feel loved and stuff and now that he is gone i dont know what to do help me please!!!!
2006-08-04 03:06:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
are you the onassis daughter? :o) - sorry couldn't help it....
try to calm down dear. you won't get a clear thought out of your mind if you are that upset.
parents usually try to protect you and do things that you are not ok with. but remember, they really only try to provent you from making mistakes....even though you will have to make them anyway.
parents are like that - they love you and they want your best. but they can't provent you from making mistakes...
dear - try to cool down and now that you are living in a different country you'll have to say goodbye to your bf anyway...
i know it doesn't help much: but there is other fishes in the sea and you are still young.
everybody goes tru that in their lifes....
2006-08-04 03:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by 42 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
parents can make mistakes, but at the time they think they are doin what is best for you.
just because you have moved doesn't mean you can't stay in touch with each other. you can phone or text. if you are meant to be together then you will be and if not then he will stop writing, txting or phoning (that is if he does any of them).
it may seem like the worst thing in the world right now but it will get easier with time. before you know it you will have made new friends where you live and life won't seem so bad.
i do hope it works out for you, and like i said if you and your bf are meant to be together then moving won't change anything. like the saying goes 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'
good luck :)
2006-08-04 03:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you don't want to hear it, a 14 year old can't be in love. He may make you feel good, you have a good time together and he fulfills needs that you have for love, but you are not emetionally developed enough to be in love.
Take some time to talk to your parents and listen to them. MAke some friends and meet some other people and don't focus on your boyfriend. It will give you more perspective about how you feel about him.
2006-08-04 03:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Reddy492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you hear this a lot but it is true.... you are still very young... if it was meant to be it will be when you are older and live near him again... long distance doesn't last and you are very long distance... stay in very close contact with him and when you see him again in a while the anticipation is going to blow up and if it was meant to be the sparks will fly... about the whole love thing... you will find out soon enough how much he loves you depending on how long it takes your friends to call you and tell you he is seeing some one else and he says .... what do you expect me to do.... it happens more than you think...
2006-08-04 03:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ann M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 years old!!! Dam girl... Give yourself a chance to explore the world before getting a boyfriend or getting tied down already! 14 is soooo young to be so foolish about boys already. Go to school, get straight A's, go off to college, explore the world!!! There is so much out there, why bother with a boy, when you could have everything?? Good luck. Dont be so eager to grow up so fast.
2006-08-04 03:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,
u r still young and you should always listen to what your parents say! from experience i can tell you that your parents know what is best for you and what is not.
In the meantime you can still have a long distance relationship with this guy. But i am sure that eventually, you will meet some other guy that will love you for whatever you are.
2006-08-04 03:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I guess your parents is a bit too harsh about your b/f but they should respect you more about who you love even though they could be right or they could be wrong. You are only 14 years old. Dont you think you should be more concern about school then just love???
2006-08-04 05:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Hotlips_G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do agree u r in serious problem. I have passed thru similar situation hence the ans.--Pl. wait engage ur self in other intresting activities ,if he really loves u he will come back. U may ask him 2 meet ur parents & expl. his point of view. Pl. do remember FOR A 14 YR. GIRL THERE IIS NO REPEAT NO BETTER WELL WISHER THEN HER PARENT--ALL THE BEST .
2006-08-04 03:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by jayjagjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweety. You'll be o.k. Just try to keep in touch with him whether it be by phone or mail. Only time will tell if you guys were really meant to be. Besides, you are too young to be stuck on one guy. Your lives will take you to so many different places. You will meet so many new people in the future. Focus on your education and future career.
2006-08-04 03:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-04 03:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by juicy101xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋