how do you under stand somthing like this,,,,,,,,,,,we got just about everything that any body would want
2006-08-04 03:01:49 · 15 answers · asked by B/S l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Having everything you could want often leads to complacency. Some people need the struggle and the fight of life. They need the adventure and thrills. Some times people just become too familiar with each other and feel a need for that spark of lust and passion that you can really only get with someone new. Of course that won't last either so they will repeat this same pattern but that doesn't matter to some people.
2006-08-04 03:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse lust with love, or sex with love. All have different properties. There is a desire in all normal people for sex. The culture a person is raised in has rules for what is acceptable when dealing with sex. When you love someone, then you care about their feelings, goals, and all things that make them unique. When you lust for someone, you are placing your want above the object/person you lust for.
When you 'fall out of love', usually it means the person you once loved did not meet your expectation or mental image of the person. You may have fallen in love with the mental image of the person which was a far cry from reality. Falling out of love was just a reality check. Also, people change. As people mature, their wants and needs changes. Just because you are a couple, does not mean these changes are the same and the further apart the wants and needs are, the more distant two people become. You can still care about the other, but if it requires too much of a sacrifice to stay together then you must part. With some guys, sex is sex and wither or not it with a friend or a stranger it is still something desired. Therefore, with some people, even the cracks in the sidewalk isn't safe.
2006-08-12 09:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you've shared true intimacy and affection, you cannot just turn away from a person who is worthy to have a place in your heart forever.. You may not be in love, but you do love one another, just like you love family members and special friends. When the two finally marry other people and commit to their soul mates, they'll always have those special memories of the times they shared something special with another. Eveyrone needs something special to keep in their hearts just for themselves and if you have that special caring for someone, you just can't turn it off completely. Also, there should never be any regrets for the time you've shared--it should be treasured.
2006-08-12 00:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rochoward is right. Sex and love are totally different things. If you love someone and they don't love you back, but will still have sex with you, obviously for their pleasure, then they are being just plain mean and really don't care about you.
2006-08-04 10:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by fatima_mst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic love and friendship love are different. True love can die if it isnt nourished or wanted or from chauvanism etc. Some people can handle friendship with benefits but its more difficult than true bonding with sharing a whole life-dinners, movies, talking and all that. So if its hurting you, you can end it.
2006-08-12 09:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not sex.
if you love someone sex is an orgasm in the mind as well as in the body.
if you do not love this person you need to be sure they do not love you. if they love you they you are deceiving them and need to stop as they will be devastated. if this person does not love you and you both realise it is just sex then no big problem, think of it as mutual pleasure but be careful and use contraception
2006-08-11 12:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big BIG difference between LUST and LOVE. It has taken me 12 years and 3 marriages to figure that out!
2006-08-04 10:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by tmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to explain it is..............you are kept as the kick. When nothing is available they turn towards you to satisfy. Get off the back burner. Sounds like the infamous saying, "I love you but, I am not in love with you."
2006-08-12 03:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon it's called a booty call and there is nothing wrong with that.......in fact you can contact me for one!
2006-08-12 09:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by doereen69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just fooling urself by calling it love?its 69.dont understand!! its lust
2006-08-04 10:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋