2006-08-04 02:43:50 · 13 answers · asked by fungirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel for you!! My soon to be motherinlaw isn't even excited about my wedding to her son! She never asks about the wedding or says anything positive about it. Its very frustrating on my part.
I suppose you need to speak to your husband about this issue that his parents have with you. Hopefully he supports you, unless they have some good reason to dislike you. Try to suck it up the best you can for his sake but don't let his parents trample all over you either.
Good luck.
2006-08-04 03:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by justhavinfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard somehow i feel that once yr in-laws hate you it will even effect the children ..e.g: my parents got married at a very young age.. both sides of in-laws hate each other .. even until now.. (only god know for whatever reasons) sometimes my paternal granny n even his siblings (dad's side) did alot of nasty things to both my parents like stirking out my dad's name for some cash give outs. seriously i think my family is the "black sheep" to both sides.. so basically once they hate you its no use trying to be nice..
2006-08-04 02:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no nice way to get around this - I think that you need to stand your ground.
I tried for years to like my partner's mother, but clearly this was not about to happen. I have learned, that at the end of the day you need to determine what is it that makes you feel comfortable and happy - you can love their daughter or son but you don't need to love them.
Be who you are.
Love and joy
Beth
2006-08-04 02:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't allow them to affect me, they are allowed to see the grandkids as long as visits follow without incident. They are not allowed in my life, meaning no holidays with extended family, but my kids still see them...days later.
2006-08-04 07:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and my mother detested one another. We lived in a city across the country and thus limited her visits.
2006-08-04 02:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes u hate them and is there any reason why you cant bite the bullet and start to like them for your husband/ wife sake.
2006-08-04 02:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by d_elmasry@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it must be, be polite whenever you see them. And try not to see them much!! lol
2006-08-04 03:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance, and indifference. Don't let them get to you, be nice and polite.
2006-08-04 03:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY FAR FAR FAR AWAY AND U NEED TO TALK TO UR SPOUSE AND TELL HIM HOW U FEEL ABOUT IT AND WHAT U WOULD WANT TO CHANGE FROM IT AND MOST IMPORTANTLY SPEAK UP!!
2006-08-04 02:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation.. it sucks. just smile, and fake it!!
2006-08-04 02:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋