2006-08-04 02:42:58 · 8 answers · asked by Ana M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you might need some counselling depending on what has happened in the past. to move on you need to put the past behind and look forward to the future.
2006-08-04 02:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it's hard to let go of the past completely. You will always know what happened, but the part you have to remember is that it's over. What's done is done and now you need to move on with your life. It's not as if you can go back in time and change what has happened. Don't beat yourself up for it. If there are people you need to apologize to or maybe you just need to talk to them, then you definitely need to do so. Most of the time having their forgiveness and acceptance makes forgiving yourself 100 times easier. Don't drown yourself in the past. Understand that you are only human. You will make mistakes and so will everyone else. It's time to move on.
2006-08-04 09:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a long and hard process to go through. My personal philosophy on self-forgiveness is that life is too short to be angry with yourself over something that has already been done. You cannot change it, or make it go away, but you can forgive yourself and move on. You have to be ready to do it. Just telling yourself that everything is okay now, without your heart being in it, will do no good. I wish the best for you.
2006-08-04 09:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus on the past. Keep busy with the present, then the past will fade. Eventually time will make you heal.
2006-08-04 09:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it begins when you have submited all your worries,hate-red,pains,,etc.. to GOD above and accept him in your life,and ask him for your forgiveness and to help you go on with your life...
there's nobody could ever help you in any situation like this but HIM...
surrender yourself in him,then you could begin to forget the past and forgive yourself..
gudluck!!
2006-08-04 09:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to do it! Forgive yourself and forget past!! Just like that.
2006-08-04 09:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by timisoreanca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know that what you did is wrong & take it as a lesson learned, then don['t do it ever again
don't be so hard on yourself, we are all humans & do things we sometimes regret
take care
2006-08-04 09:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless of what you are being forgiven did not hurt anybody else...your action may not had any real bad consequences so you can go through that.......
2006-08-04 09:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋