I was a few steps away from asking someone for coffee... I chickened out. What wrong with me. I get nervour just being around that person. All sugestions that might make it easiers for me to ask the person for coffee.
2006-08-04 02:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by Marike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you just need to take a few deep breaths and just ask for coffee. you might regret it if you dont.
2006-08-04 02:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a conversation with that person, don't ask them if they want to go have coffee with you, instead strike up a conversation about how much you like coffee and if they like it too, and then say "Well hey can I buy you a cup of coffee. It is not a date but a chance to have some one on one time and then you may find the nerve for the big question. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-04 02:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Papa Dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not too clear but here goes. Relax, take a deep breath and think of something else while you approach this person. Like maybe you are counting coins or waxing your car. Then when you get close enough to be heard just ask, "Hey, want to have a cup of coffee?". Who knows, it is so simple it might work.
2006-08-04 02:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, just ask...its not that hard to ask for coffee...my mom has, bascially who ever drinks coffee in my family (I DO!) we ask for coffee if we don't have any...we borrow and then when we go to the store again we buy and give some back from who we borrowed some from. Just ask...its frickin coffee, not like your asking them for a kiss or anything or for a date.
2006-08-04 02:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is the person that makes you nervous, get to know them. You will probably feel more comfortable around them if they aren't like a stranger. Show them you are alright with being in their presence. If it is the coffee that gets you nervous, switch to decaf.
2006-08-04 04:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me its always easier to go out there on a limb and ask something totally weird.....like "hey baby lets do donuts and coffee" or proposing on my knee with a pipecleaner ring to ask someone out to the prom.
Go out there make it memorable and funny.
2006-08-04 02:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by chatxleau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to sponsor me a cup of coffee.
2006-08-04 02:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think big..start small...I am going to ask this person to meet my parents, go to dinner, see a movie...ok..have a cup of coffee....you can do it!
2006-08-04 02:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it like this: "Hey, I'm going for coffee. Wanna go? I'll buy."
2006-08-04 02:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use an email or simply ask coffee tomarrow
2006-08-04 02:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋