i have been with debbie for 5months i love her loads but me argue loads but wen we dont its great but when should i give up? i have been offered a job on a cruise ship but if i go it will be 6months at a time, we would be finished if i go, what should i do HELP
2006-08-04 02:07:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give her up. You're not ready for this relationship yet. You need to go off and do your thing. Why did you apply for the job if you didn't secretly want it?
You shouldn't be constantly arguing after 5mths. It's not going tog et any better, only worse. Get out of it now and you'll find something better later on.
2006-08-04 02:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her and she loves you then it does not matter if your away for a year she should still be there for you. Like me and my girl we stay together through thick and thin not matter what and we ain't even married or engaged but do what your heart says.
2006-08-04 02:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by the ONE and ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like arguing stay if not get on the ship
2006-08-04 02:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by chunky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only being with her for 5 months go for the money and who know you mitt find someone there
2006-08-04 02:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, give her up. It sounds like it is already finished.
2006-08-04 02:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by justaquestioner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the money if you two aren't overly serious
if you both were meant to be she will be here for you when you get back
2006-08-04 02:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to let the love go..if its strong enough it will come back.
2006-08-04 02:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by willows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and enjoy yourself have a good life
2006-08-07 08:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by telboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves u then it will not matter if u go
2006-08-04 02:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋