I don't interact with them, and I don't want to because they aren't nice people, but I have to live here and I just don't want to infect my family with my disgust for the horrors of next door. They are noisy (of course) which makes them hard to tune out, there are many of them (of course) which makes it easy to run into them at the grocery store or taking a walk.
So I don't want to be friends with them. I just want, on a personal level, to stop being annoyed by them.
2006-08-04 02:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by justaquestioner 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay as happy in your heart as possible and wear a shade. a sunglasses keep that smile and you dont have to have eyecontact. so this way no one will think ur rude stop that hating feeling. all the best. be happy and go on put on ur best sun glass:)
2006-08-04 02:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
first of all i grew up in rochester new york and was blessed with great neighbors.everyone knew eachother,it was like mayberry or something..i miss that.in florida no one ever knows thier neighbors.it is very rude and unfriendly here.now when you have a bad neighbor,the first thing i would do is get a big dog,they will keep thier distance.or,you can become a worse neighbor and maybe they will move away.i got rid of one here like that.contact me at firstknight61@yahoo.com and i have many nasty tricks to make them want to be as far away from you as possible.have a great day.
2006-08-04 02:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop worrying about them. Think about anything else but them. And, be neighborly. If they wave or say hi, then you should do the same. It's amazing what just a little bit of friendliness can do ... and it doesn't mean you have to be friends with them, just civil. If you're civil, maybe they will be nicer to you and then you won't have any real reason to hate them.
2006-08-04 02:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by frankiquilts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's frustrating and it's a pain, but if the landlord(s) aren't willing to intervene, and your neighbour won't voluntarily quiet her kids down, your only option is to continue to call the cops. They'll give her a warning once or twice, but if they continue to be called out, they'll give her a fine. Maybe a financial penalty will drive the point home that while kids will be kids, constantly driving your neighbours out of their minds is not okay. Good luck.
2016-03-16 13:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prejudice a word, that feels wrong-- a feeling without rhyme or song..
A feeling felt by anyone--a feeling that cant be fun..
Prejudice simmers beneath the soul--embedding itself, making our bodies cruel and cold..
Its a whisper yelling in that weak ones ear--over powering positive thoughts, creating fear..
Telling us hating is just and right--and when the message becomes to real, we have to fight..
Before we know it, even the whispers, we start to feel--as the touch of hate becomes so real..
We start to hate those we don't even know--as the negative of hate, even dims loves glow..
Hate comes in all shades of skin--its our choices, that keeps the hate with in..
Hate can steal one or a whole family--but love and God can help us see..
Its up to us to challenge that which feels wrong--our choices keeps us from weakness and going along..
Its a paranoia, a mental distrust of others--this prejudice thing can even make you hate your mother..
Its a blindness we allow ourselves, you and me--a hate that keeps us from being able to see..
From seeing the brightness of love glowing from others --that kind of love, that glows when we make a stranger a sister, a brother..
Ive learned to give the heart time to feel--and when the time comes , youll know its real..
We have to deal with the consequences, your fate--please make the choice not to hate..
2006-08-04 02:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak frankly about the problems ur facing by them.speak to a responsible person of the family,and inform the m all that is distubing u.
secondly give the some shor period of time to change themselves
thirdly ask them ,if u r disturbing them in case, or by mistake
lastly TIT FOR TAT
means u also start disturbing them when they would like to be peaceful,
thanks
2006-08-04 02:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by mukesh a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with them, or even smile when you see them. No one says that you have to be friends with them, but you can still be friendly.
They are people trying to do their thing just like you.
2006-08-04 02:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with them. Tell them how to be peaceful
2006-08-04 02:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by snow l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like to get revenge to make you feel better, if they are loud in the evening or late night, you could call the cops on them. If they have children you could report neglect or abuse.
2006-08-04 02:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out of rochester and move to henrietta. its a better place anyway.
2006-08-04 02:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋