2006-08-04 00:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by shahid james 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do u have friends whom u can share ur sexual fantasies? Can u actually sit with ur friends in a cafe and talk abt ur day with irritating interruptions? Can u give intimate details abt ur life to ur friends without having them change their opinion abt u? Can u just tell them ur deepest tots? If u can't, then why do we call the people we are with "Close Friends"
I must admit i find it difficult. Whenever i watch Sex and the City, i realise how inadequate i've been in terms of alot of things. Have i build good friendships so far? Do i respect my friends enough? Do i only seek their company only when i'm feeling bored? Why Can't we come together and have spontaneous chat? Why must there be so many restrictions? Time to bloody go home, Oh! We shouldn't speak of such things or Well, my story is better than urs so listen to mine 1st.
Are we so preoccupied with ourselves that we forget abt the people ard us? The fact that we are, is making us live very individualistically. We even forget to ask our closest friends a simply :"How's ur day been." Well even if we do the natural response would be a "It's ok." We have simply overlook the fact that we can count on each other that's why we are close friends ain't it?
Can i actually name a person other than my family members who wld be there for me in time of distress? The sad fact is: No. I can already imagine wat they wld say if i call them: "It's too late.", "I dun tink i can go out today", "I've got sch tmr" or "Do u have someone else to call". We are too busy with our own lives that we fail to connect, even as friends, emotionally. I'm not saying we have to be there for each other every single moment of our lives or talk on the phone every nite but the lest we should be doing is to enjoy a certain level understanding.
I know i'm not the only one in the world who feels this way. It's just that i've been doing alot of thinking and had to get this off my bloody chest.
2006-08-04 00:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason people break trust is because they think that the person that osupposingly trusts them doesn't anymore, therefore they do not trust them anymore.
2006-08-04 00:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is an simple explanation for that phenomenon. I think that most people do so either intentionally and others unintentionally. But one thing is for sure, once someone breaks your trust regaining it is like climbing a steep mountain.
2006-08-04 00:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by gotananswer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are gonna be people. Sometimes trust is broken intentionally other times not.
2006-08-04 00:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a man, hu. well girl they breake their trust cuz they can't trust themselves enough for them to hold trust for anyone else.
2006-08-04 00:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by TGQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they cant trust themselves.
2006-08-04 00:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the person who has broken your trust.
2006-08-04 00:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Zac Efron Rox!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are testing you to see how much you can really take
2006-08-04 00:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not sincere to themselves.
2006-08-04 00:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't think, they don't think they will get caught.
2006-08-04 00:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋