my wife's orgasm is too intense when she has one. I have to stop because at after she has one, she is so sensitive it is painful instead of pleasure.
2006-08-04 00:56:00
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answered by benninb 5
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1. she believes it is wrong
2. she don't feel so fresh and clean down there
3. having a female problem
4. you might be a bit rough , or someone was in the past
5. maybe she use to be a man and had an operation
6. might think she will smell herself on your face if she kisses you
7. doesn't want to return the favor , so if you don't do it she wont have to
8. has never had it done before
9. doesn't know you well enough and other emotional mushy things
why would she make you stop as you make her climax? maybe after she climaxes she is done and loses interest .
if this is not just a question for curiosity and something that is on your mind because of it happening in your relationship , maybe you should sit down with her and talk a bit . ask her how things are in the bedroom , if you make her feel good, and why she don't want you to go down , and why she wants you to stop.
***** just dont do it in an accusing way or make it seem that you are criticising her ****** that is not a good idea to do . women can become evil , devious monsters when they feel they need to defend themsleves from verbal criticism .
good luck
2006-08-04 09:16:09
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answered by mick 4
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That sort of thing is done on hoes that you have no respect for. Plus, most women only want to climax one time and then be left alone. The clitoris is extremely sensitive (in a bad way) immediately after sex and we do not want you to touch it anymore. However, after you get us off that way, you then want to keep messing with it so as to get yourself off and we are just ready to snuggle and go to sleep. So, if she doesn't want you to continue, it is more than likely that she wants the sexual experience to last a little longer and she knows that if she cums she will be ready to call it quits (but she wants you to be happy so she prolongs the event) OR, maybe she has spent all day preparing for it (nails, hairdo, outfitt, candels, blah, blah, blah) and she doesn't want it to all be over in a blink. Kinda like the let down women feel when they spend all day in the kitchen preparing a meal and all the eating last only 15-20mins. (then she's gotta clean up too)
"Good" girls don't want to feel like they are in a porno. And anyway you shouldn't have intimate relations until you are married. Maybe that's it. You should ask her to marry you then she may climax without you even touching her.
2006-08-04 11:55:13
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answered by HazelEyes 5
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There are many reasons that it could be, why don't you just ask her?
Personally, I have gone through this in a new relationship because it is too personal and makes me feel vulernable and not in control.
It is a very sensitive area, and you may be going at it too hard. Or she's just not comfortable being pleased, may be causing pain. Maybe she's saving it for a special occassions. Like I said, there could be many reasons.
2006-08-04 14:24:19
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answered by ht_butterfly27 4
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She thinks her p u s s y stinks. Or she is afraid you'll see her herpes, etc. For one reason or the other she just isn't comfortable with you being down there. Maybe you're no good at eating p u s s y?
2006-08-04 12:21:01
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answered by Anonymous
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she is on her period
she thinks you won't like it
she thinks she smells bad
it hasn't worked in the past
she thinks there's a problem with her genitals
(or has an STD)
she doesn't want you to have that power over her
as far as the stopping, perhaps she wants something else
at that moment: penetration or something else.
you just have to ask i know it's hard
2006-08-04 07:43:38
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answered by BonesofaTeacher 7
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All of the answers are good !
My wife loves to recieve oral. but when she orgasms she tends to squirt and this she does not like.
She also gets very sensitive there.
Give her time and when you do get there take your time take it slow and listen to her body.
If you get it right she will invite you back !
2006-08-04 21:52:07
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answered by me n 2
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they feel xtra vulnerable the first few times, be patient, she'll develop a taste for it
2006-08-04 07:41:46
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answered by Charlie Mejia 3
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Shes a weirdo .
2006-08-04 19:47:55
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answered by goldieluxxx 4
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1. You are biting her
2. it is to intense
3 She woudn't.
2006-08-04 07:42:39
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answered by matt 4
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