i mean, that makes the odds of actually finding them slim to none. Is there really only one person we were destined to end up with???
2006-08-04 00:06:29 · 28 answers · asked by houston_is_home 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nooooo.....speaking from experience.
Finding a person you are compatible with is something we, as humans, adapt to accomplishing.
It may not be a perfect match (never really is) but we manage to find our own version of what we, as individuals, believe 'love' is.
Sometimes we just get lucky :)
BTW.....I agree with chucky....good answer.
2006-08-04 00:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe at first, before I had quite few relationships before i got married i mean before i met my husband, i had heartaches and heart breaks, i cried and feel that there is no right person for me, i'm 29 then and i feel i'm will end up as an oldmaid and its a terrible feeling when you wanted to settle down and have your own family, when I was about to give up and decided to be single for the rest of my life because I don't want a heartache anymore that's when i met my husband, i feel it odd that we live in different side of the world and we met, it was amazing now we're married and we get along very well, we love each other very much and its been two years now since we got married, we still thank that we met each other, and thats then I realize that whatever relationship you are into and no matter how hard you try to work it out if its not meant to be then it is not meant to be, somebody will just come along, someone who is meant for yo, someone who will love you for you and someone you will love, someone who will respect you, care for you and someone you will do the same. Everyone is destined for someone outthere, no matter how long and far it will just come along.
2006-08-04 07:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by wala_lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I mean, I'm married and I met my husband in the 10th grade. We were on again, off again.. like most high school relationships, and after high school we went our separate ways. I fell in love, and so did he.. but we ended up back together. Married with children.. He's my one person.. I though I was destined to be with him. After years of being apart.. and living our lives.. we ended up together.
If I thought that there was more than one person for each of us to be with.. that was perfect for us, that would make us as happy or more.. then that would mean that out there somewhere.. is another person that I could fall in love with and think was my soul mate... what happened if I met that person? What would happen if I met someone better... On the other hand.. what if he really isn't my "soul mate" and some day... I met that person?
I wouldn't want to consider a world where I'm not married to , and love the person that was made for me. During my wedding, the minister's sermon was along the lines of " Before these 2 people were even born, God knew that they would be for each other, and through trials and the pursuit of life, they found one another to be with.. as God intended for them to be"
I think that there is someone destined for you. I think that there is one person for everyone.. and sometimes we settle with substitutes in the meantime... not knowing that we're settling for someone other than that one person God put on this earth just for us. You may never find that person.. and they may never find you.. but you marry someone you love and you live a happy life anyways.
2006-08-04 07:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only people that don't have someone say that. If that were true then why do people remarry. and why do people get back together or reunite if they already know that they're not the one. Because some people are compatable and some are not. So things are forgivable and some are not. Sometimes things work out and sometimes they don't but to think that something has already chosen a mate for you and stands by to see if you ever meet is kinda sick and childish
2006-08-04 07:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about timing, have n't you every really fancied some one then a year down the line seen them and thought actually, what was i on! But you could of ended up with that person if at the time she felt the same way!
2006-08-04 07:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Macka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say "a category of persons" rather than "a person". The soul mate thing is also a bit far fetched, there can be many persons to share likes, dislikes, opinions etc with. You must know yourself, to know what kind of person you're looking for.
2006-08-04 07:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe this is true, am 26 and not had many sexual partners, but the 1 ive just lost, i know was the one. and is scary because many dont find there one and i did and let go. i love her dearly and no 1 will ever come close to me again .
2006-08-08 05:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by jamesbpk2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is not, There are multiple partners out there. It only takes a minue to meet someone, it takes a day to get to know them, it takes lifetime to completely love them
2006-08-04 07:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by CHUCK O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 6 billion people around. Plenty to find love and happiness, if that's what you mean.
Dig deeper !!
All the best
2006-08-04 07:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is sum1 4 every 1. just v have 2 find out.
2006-08-04 07:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋