What would you think and believe if one day you got on the internet after your husband and the history showed .Searches for massage parlors, escort services, in your area.Also The Erotic Reviewer(a messege board that reviews hookers personal performance's from recient clients for interested future clients for a specific girl).My husband said to me when I asked him what is this?"He said" I wasn't going to execute it, I was just looking."
Tell me what you would think...
2006-08-03 23:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by Cecilia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I met my husband I was a service provider(prostitute).In nevada the brothals are leagal.He was a customer of mine. He told me that he only did it a couple of times before he met me that it was something new to him.We feel in love and got married and I quite the business.
2006-08-03 23:46:11 · update #1
That he has a problem and needs professional help before he ruins your marriage.When things like this happen,emn often lie their way out of it and try to play it off,at least in what I have read here at yahoo answers.Do NOT let him dare say it's your fault or the sex is lacking,because he is the one choosing to look at the crap.Talk to him,get rid of the computer,get him help.Do what you can to help save your marriage from his ruining.Good luck!!
2006-08-03 23:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think you shouldnt be too worried. like they say, men will always be..(sigh!) boys.. Its just curiousity. Provided all other aspects are goin on fine in your lives. Everyone likes to get a lil naughty at times. Sneak peeks may just add spice to your sex lives. Observe whether he's showing any signs of behavioural changes towards you. Provided you arent a suscpicious freak, youre womanly instincts should tell you if something's wrong somewhere.
You should probably forget it and talk openly about such sites to him.It will put him at ease and he may even open up a bit and talk to you too. You could probably take up the initiative to role play- maybe a hooker yourself one night, a lap dancer the next.. use your imagination and be open with him.
Please be careful while dealing with it. A little bit of maturity and careful thinkin will help.
2006-08-03 23:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something definately going on between you two, that you are not aware of. Sit down with him and try to find out what's up. Don't press too hard and don't become too emotional! This is one of those times where marriage vows come into play. You are there to help and support him. Find out what you both can do to head this potential bomb off. Let hm know you are open to suggestions and make some yourself.. Good luck and take care...
2006-08-03 23:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! You cant be doing the business for him then ? Pull up a chair & have a chat with him - hold his hand & ask him why he feels the need to look for it elsewhere... is there something he wants you wont do... I wont do " A."... So I let my husband go elsewhere ..it saves a lot of heartache...Good Luck & Stay Happy
2006-08-03 23:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i would say stop snooping, dont ask the questions, if u might not like the anwsers, hey like i tell my wife what i do when i am not with her is none of her buisness, ,,
2006-08-04 01:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have listed the sites.
2006-08-04 03:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by winston584 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are not getting it done at home and he needs more you really should talk to him to see what would be the solution
2006-08-03 23:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is actually not necessary that he goes 4 it....if u trust him,trust him full. If u dont,then check him
2006-08-03 23:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by trustadevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's his habit to shop around.
I would think the worst, but he may be telling you the truth.
2006-08-03 23:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that your marriage is in deep do do!
2006-08-03 23:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋