what is the best way to ask someone for a date?

Question

i am down to earth kinda guy who is very shy and dont talk 2much i am looking for help on how toa ask nyone for date

Answer 1

Ok my friend, ive been in your situation before...and i know how scary it can be asking someone out, because you actually making YOURSELF vulnerable for rejection...but there's a way around that.

Just go up to the person you are wanting to go out on the date with, and start a casual conversation (no pickup lines or jokes....*just yet*)
Then as you chat to her abit, ask her what she likes to do and what kinda things she thinks are fun...

If she says something like ...um...i duno... ROCK CLIMBING... then u say "Hey, i ALSO love rock climbing..."

And then u ask her if she would like to try rock climbing with you.

If she says YES, then congratulations, u have a date! (u can always ask her AFTER rock climbing if she would like to go out for a dinner date another time...dont rush into things...)

and if she says NO,dont be depressed and run away crying like a big baby... turn her rejection around on her and say something like... "Oh i see, You'r just afraid i might be better than you"
This way , you are challenging her, and if she STILL says no, then it looks like SHE is inferior,because she has backed down from your challenge, and if she accepts, then...CONGRATULATIONS, u have urself a date!

i HIGHLY recommend you go to the link i provided! Its a forum of PA's (pickup artists), and they have INSANELY BRILLIANT ways of getting into chicks minds and stuff!

Hope this helps

Answer 2

If I want to ask someone I like for a date, I try first to find out what he likes first. If he likes going to movies (like me) I start the conversation by telling him about a movie that has just been released and wait to see his reaction. If he seems excited too I say something like: Let's see if we find some free time one these days to see this movie.
Now, if he likes going to dinner, I talk to him about a new restaurant that has just been opened in the city than I say it's really worth to try it. Again, I wait to see his reaction, if he seems excited too, I tell him he should check about this new rest too because I can't wait have an opportunity or chance to go there too. (Most of the time its work, at least with me. It depends how is your approach)
I hope you had gotten the idea. Try not to be too direct about dates otherwise it will pass the feeling of something professional like doing business or something and not that you are looking to do something you enjoy to do with someone you feel attracted to.
Good luck.

Answer 3

I would probably leave a little note asking someone. But I would try and just ask them!

Lets say that its the boy asking the girl.

Boy: "Hi, I'm in your English class and I think your really nice and pretty . . . Umm . . . Do you want to go out to dinner or something?"
Girl: "Ok . . ."

Yeah I am not being helpful am I?

Answer 4

OK,may you should start by trusting yourself and then when you see some one you like start by being friendly try to find out the things you have in common and your differences and then let this happen in a slow but good way and don't push it.if she's not interested in you don't try to impress her too much

Answer 5

u just need to be very confident about urself.ask her very casually out for coffee but make her feel tat she is really special for u.u cant afford to sound silly n dumb.make her feel tat she will definitely enjoy ur company.....all d best hope it helps

Answer 6

do u like food and wat kind of food..............lets go out 4 food