2006-08-03 22:48:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
good question.i don't know.
2006-08-03 22:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation right now. And it was never carved in stone that although you love someone; it's not written anywhere that you have to like them. I know this because I have this rage that builds up everytime I look at my man now. But what he did to cause this was pretty drastic and for me unforgivable. You can love someone and hate what they have done not really hating them. Actions alot of times define a person and then it becomes confusing. The question should be what to do about it. And that I would tell you to think about how painful this is and if you can live with these feelings. If it is a constant than I would think of considering getting out. Why live in a relationship where there are such conflicting feelings? Love is supposed to be happy and rosy. Nothing negative.
2006-08-03 23:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by nutcase5150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u care 2 much.... it's like family rite?? Any other person can say or do somethin' bad 2 u n it's easy 2 just dust it off.... but with family.... and those who u really care about.... u find that their opinions matter 2 u.... n they're usually the ones that hurt u the most.... y?? because U love them.... don't deny ur emotions.... don't suppress feelings.... yes U r human... n no offence 'ihavetoknownow' but that was a bit abstract for a simple question.... n for 'nutcase5150'.... love is a risk.... u have 2 take risks.... i would rather live my life knowin' that i loved wholeheartedly n was rejected then go thru life always wondering "what if i said this.... what if i did that".... pain is a great emotion.... there is oposition in all things.... u have to experience one emotion in order to appreciate the other.... it's the only way u can truly say u have lived.
2006-08-03 22:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Look at'chu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is like love!
2006-08-03 22:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine line between love and hate. It's all about passion. The opposite of love is actually indifference.
2006-08-03 22:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is simple i had the smae problem.
this is because when u hate a person and keep on hating him/her ugo so much into it that sumtimes it becomes immpossible to go through that day with lokin at the person. Sum people go through this and suddenly u get the feeling tha u love them.
2006-08-03 22:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Soul Blazer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt your mammy ever warn you about love being so close to hate...
Step back from your emotions and do a pro con list ... weigh up all the things you love and all the things you hate... If one outweighs the other surely it gives you an answer!!!
2006-08-04 00:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because hate is a form of love.
2006-08-03 22:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if they don't love you back the way you need them too you hate the loss of control you have over your feelings.
2006-08-03 23:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love and hate are closely related.
2006-08-03 22:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by aliviel27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE after the intial passion love is routine and day to day activities and even mundane and dull...then it breeds hatred for loved one not "creating "the excitement u began with and then u see the real person....love is habit .......habits are hard to break ...we hate our habits we hate things in ourselves that keep us addicted to love ...we stay because it is easier not to break the habit..we resent our partner etc etc...not that i would ever feel these things ......sometimes the things we hate about ourselves are mirrored in our partner ....etc etc love you goodnite
2006-08-03 23:00:18 · answer #11 · answered by ihave2knownow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋