How to overcome ur emotions?

Question

I m a professinally qualified executive working in an MNC ...this is the first time i m away from my home....n all my frnd circle has been lost..nw my problem is that i m a very emotional person,i think all people are good and i just refuse to see tht persons around us are not always good and are always ready to exploit u...ever since i came into this office i made a good acquaintance but now he is going for a new job ......the atmosphere in the office was too professional so i found it hard to cope myself he helped me alot..v didnt become frnds but become good co workers so now when he is leaving i m feeling very bad....I knw problem lies wid my nature to trust others and my feeling of loneliness...of being left alone but the school phase is over now ..its the hard cruel world......I just want help from who all read this mail to advice me how to become a professional and emotionally detached person so tht i dont feel hurt n no one can ever exploit me ..becoz the world is like tht only

Answer 1

I understand your situation. You see, we can only overcome our emotions when we first learn how to control them. Like the feeling of sadness whrn being left behind. If you knew that your workmates are not there for life or they are not friends for keeps, you should try as much as possible not to be emotionally attached.Always bear in mind that they are not permanent..i mean like our loved ones, now we see them but we will never know till when. i myself did not believe that bad things may happen, disrespectful persons or there are people that may exploit you..not until I experience it and heard it from people at work (even here at yahoo answers). However, we can not control everything in life, emotions keep us humans but it should dwell in you for long. There should be space for new and refreshing memories that will bring about the healthy emotions. be open to new acquintances BUT still it takes years to build trust on someone so just be cautious (for your own good). And most importantly, PRAY...God is with you always even your workmates or frineds leave you..God will always be with you. Hope this helps. God bless!

Answer 2

Time will make u hard.Its gud that u r emotional bcoz the world has given less persons who r emotional.I m not satisfied with the view that its the hard cruel world.If u have the confidence u can make your surroundings as u want.But u got to be hard,confident & u have to control your emotions a little.Dont let the emotions die else what u said now that its the hard cruel world,then u will be a part of that world.Its not possible to change the envirnment of your office,but try to get fit into it at first,let others know u & ten try to change them slowly.As u r emotional & u r unable to change yrself,so r the people who have set them according to the off environment & they will also need time to adapt to changes.Dont blame the world,dream of a beautiful world & make it beautiful by your efforts.U can do so.Just be positive.Always positive my frnd.Dont think otherwise ever.

Answer 3

i think that i used to have your same problem i am away from my family and i almost have no friends around me, they are all back home.
hiding your emotions is hard coz even if you smile your eyes will never lie. i don't know why, but eyes never lie. but you have to learn how to bend them. be good with everyone be nice and treat people as you like them to treat you.

we are humans and one of the things we have more than animals is emotions, it is not wrong to be emotional but you have to know when to show them and to who. even if someone treated you bad, treat him good, and when he treat you bad again also treat him good, and you will take your respect.

I believe that respect can not be given it is always taken.

Answer 4

The rockway! Unbreakble!

Answer 5

you know you can be happy when you are alone.
learn to be happy alone.if you will not lik your own company then who will like.why do you want that habbit to inflict on others.
do you know yourself.just spend time for yourself which is caleed self-love.

Answer 6

one should manage emotions n not try to control them