First she had an affair with my best friend, then I started messing around with some dumb chick, I guess to get even... Now she is doing it again w/ some guy I dont know... Whats the best way to just leave...??? I have to go before I pick up D.V. charge...
2006-08-03 21:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by Joshie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mate...... You're afraid of the great unknown...... That's all. After being married to a complete slut, for 13 years, I can promise you that the unknown is really, really GREAT !!!!!!!!!!! Learn from my mistakes, and put a little money aside, every pay, and when the 'running away from home' fund is big enough, close your eyes, and step off the edge. All you need enough money for, is a couple of months rent, in advance, and a bond for your new batchelor pad......... Get to it, before she sends you off, with nothing, but your shirt. It won't take long, and you'll be replaced by a new version, of what she thinks is a good deal. Regardless, it's better to die on your feet, than to live on your knees. Run like buggery. You'll never regret it.
2006-08-03 22:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by flaming_dog_racing 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"I guess to get even... "
Just as immature as she is.
Divorce is your next step and should of been your first if she nor you was interested in saving or getting help. If she doesn't want to be married. Then fine, get a divorce so she can go out and be a hoe. However, you doing it back just makes you just as bad. Be the better person and find something better AFTER divorce........Take marriage seriously.........
2006-08-03 22:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want to be with her any longer. You don't possibly think that the relationship is going to get any better, do you? Have some self-respect and don't be her footstool any longer. You're better than that and you need to prove to yourself and her that you can move on and be happier elsewhere.
2006-08-03 22:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a STD? You have no idea who shes with or what he has given her. Buck up my friend, pack your stuff and get out. Believe it or not there are still some good ones out there.
2006-08-03 23:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get up go, and dont turn back. Thats the only thing that works.
2006-08-03 22:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by VL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are in love but not IN Love with one another.
Better talk things out and move on.
2006-08-03 22:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Hotlips_G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might love her more than she does you . that isnt life my friend i know it will be hard to leave her because you love her but this is a.2. way think love. for your own sanity leave it isnt worth the hurt . my opion?
2006-08-03 23:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce the s.l.u.t, she's not fit for you and you should have done it when she first cheated on you. Once a hoe always a hoe.
2006-08-03 23:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your'e probably hung up on her that is why you find it hard to leave. Just make up your mind...say that you gonna leave and while you have that urge to walk.....walk!
2006-08-03 22:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by SNVL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her tell her ur tired of her messing around wid u... u can move on and find sum1 who wont cheat on u ....
2006-08-03 22:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋