Why are so many married woman unhappy? why are they even married?

Question

Do you know how many woman I have meet that are married and willing to.. go and do anything.. with another man.. because they are not happy.

Answer 1

lol not all married women are unhappy.. but women that are unhappy its usually because men forget what they have, get comfortable in the relationship and stop trying.. women are very emotional needy beings, when their man cant fufill their emotional needs its very easy for another man to swoop in and fill the void.. they didnt start off unhappy, usually unhappiness came after the marriage.. and i doubt they knew they'd end up unhappy when they said "i do" it usually doesnt work that way..

Answer 2

Well the reason they are married is because they were happy when they got married. Alot of the time the man or the woman starts to not pay enough attention to the other and then the problems start. They have poor communication and without communication the relationship goes down hill. So then the one that isnt gettin the attention they want start looking for it in other places.

Answer 3

Sometimes I think we hold on to that tiny light at the end of the tunnel and hope that what is making us unhappy will someday fade....as even though we know we aren't happy, we would never give it up for the world because "we love our Husbands". I was married to someone who physically and verbally was abusive later on in my marriage and it ended with several public affairs that were made known to me. I hung on in legal separation for 1.5 years until I realized that it wasn't worth the drunken hopeful nights that "this wasn't really happening" was over. I am very happy now in my next marriage and realize that not all men are perfect and they will annoy you...but that doesn't mean you/I am unhappy.

Answer 4

No sane person enters marriage with the view to 'not being happy', but unhappy marriages grow for many reasons.

Many women are in marriages with men who don't desire or want them sexually anymore - if men made more of an effort to love their wives properly, these women wouldn't feel the need to go to another man for affection. You can only judge these women if you too have been rejected by your spouse - try living in a marriage where your spouse doesn't want to touch you, and see who YOU run to for affection.

Popular culture likes to portray that women are the ones who say 'no' to their husbands, but believe me, there are plenty of women out there living with men who just aren't interested in affection and sex anymore - but that reality isn't as sensational as the poor man who doesn't get love at home anymore. The number of women who endure marriage with a man who is more brother than lover to her is on the rise. Do your research!

Answer 5

I'll tell u why
womens think first when the guy pops out the Question
they think its so sweet and ready to get married,
but really they only think now, not later, or in the future.
For me, if I want to get married,
I would have to ask my self millions of Q
is he the right one?
am I?
r we totally in love to go on forever?
these kind of Q
marriage for me is a really big step.

Answer 6

I agree most wife's are so neglected by their husbands, for instance my husband and I are totally at odds d/t Him being double standard, I would never cheat on him, I would get a divorce first, 2 wrongs certainly don't make a right.But most men like my husband start to treat their wife like another guy friend, or like she's his mother. They forget to remind us of how beautiful we look. Or did you do something new with your hair. When a women receives that attention from a stranger, it makes her feel beautiful again, noticed, and when she goes home with her self esteem high, she get greeted with whats for dinner I'm starvin, did you pick up my dry cleaning. I don't think women start off wanting to cheat but her husband unknowingly pushed her away

Answer 7

Ah, you and your questions about women. Don't you realize that not all women are like this? You are just meeting the worst of the crop is all. I am sure there is someone out there that will one day spark something in you and truly change your opinion of at least one woman!

Answer 8

The fault certainly does NOT rest entirely upon men, but we've forgotten how to be *real* men, the kind who actively pursue our women and sweep them off their feet. Too many of us just sit back, relax, and expect our ladies to be happy. They think differently than we do and expect to actually be loved, not taken for granted. If you honestly want to know the answer to your question, read the book recommended below....

Answer 9

Neglect by the husbands often leads to unrest in the wives. The same things you did while pursuing her you have to continue throughout the marriage.

Answer 10

I've seen that, too. I don't think that cheating is ever a way to make a person happier. From what I've seen, it only leads to more misery.