GF thinks she is fat....what to do?

Question

Well my girlfriend thinks she is fat, she says it all the time. She really is not fat she just has extra on her little tummy. What can I say or do to make her feel better or tell her to work out in a nice way?

Answer 1

Same I used to think, but my bf always tells me I look perfect and kisses me on all additional flesh, saying it's all cute, so in time I felt quite relaxed and more self-confident and now I don't think I am fat at all. But still I wanna lose some weight.

Answer 2

Tell her the truth that she is lil plump at her tummy and say that you don't have problem with that. say her that nobody gets a flat tummy unless they work real hard and if she's concerned with that then she can go for that exercise but don't push her. Tell her you're happy with the way she is.

Never lie about her being perfect. she knows who she is and so lying doesn't help.

Unfortunately you have to convince her time to time about this issue. After all, she's a woman. And she needs assurance that she can make you want her.

Answer 3

Tell her she's not fat, she's beautiful and give her kisses, even little ones after you do. Also do not over do it saying she's hot and there's no way she's fat. Either girls don't belive this, but I've seen some get an ego from it and dump their boyfriend then believing they can do better... that poor guy lol.

Answer 4

you know, I'm afraid you cannot be nice about it anymore. I'm sure you have tried to convince her and make her feel pretty every time.

well girls do this partially fishing for compliments and self reassurance. I think all girls go through the "I'm fat" and the "I'm ugly" phase at some point.

I did this many times. It gets so annoying. Huh, gents? I said it maybe 2 times after this happened. Well this is what happened. One day I was complaining about my appearance to my bf at the time, and he said you know what yes you are. It hurt my feelings at first but then I realized why he agreed finally. It cured me of endless complaining.

Answer 5

Man we never understand a women if we say they are not fat they starting to say "no no look at my tummy my bumps don't i look fat" and then if we say they are fat then they stop talking to us.God Only Knows what to say.Most Abnormal Creature of this world are women.

Answer 6

Nothing some girls want to have a perfect body like they see in ads, or TV, and if they don't they think they are fat. You can tell them that they are not until your blue in the face won't change anything. You can try to reason with them that those women are freaks and way to skinny, won't help. You can't change them but you can show them show desirable you find them.

Answer 7

i would want my boyfriend to say to me honey i don't think your fat at all but if you truely think you are then do something about it, no offense im sick of hearing that you think your fat you really aren't your beautiful and i wouldn't change a thing about you. Now, at the same time im not the average gf either!!! lol so good luck but that seems good i think. but at the same time she just might be fishing for compliments try giving her comliments first.

Answer 8

Tell her she is not fat, that she just needs to do a few crunches to get some stomach muscles. If you think this will upset her than just try to convince her she should be happy with her body.

Answer 9

Reassure her she's beautiful. Never make comments like how hot "fill-in-the-blank-with-your-favorite-waif-like-celebrity" is. Send her flowers when it's not a special occasion. Especially in bed, verbalize how you are turned on by every single inch of her. And don't get discouraged when she keeps needing reassurance, it's a common dilemma for the XX group!

Answer 10

Get her one of those mirrors from a Fun House that makes you look skinny. If the tummy thing bothers you turn her over.