when ever i say something sexy to my husband he laugh and then either ignore me or choose not to pursue the conversation further he do not go out of his way to talk sexy to me he just give the standard hello and goodbye kiss here and there and occasionaly might come over and hug me our sex life is not the best either i have tried to talk to him about the fact that if he do not act loving towards me then when it come to having sex i cannot really jump at the chance of doing it cause i need something to work with as far as being turn on when it come to foreplay he do not spend alot of time in that area also it make me wonder cause i found out that he talk to women on line and his conversations with them tend to be raunchy but withme he just don't bother any advice cause i am not sure what to do in a situation like this!
2006-08-03 20:09:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hahahaha sorry not laughing at you just know that situation....sometimes us men go through a period of acting this way...it doesn't mean he is cheating on you or anything like that..he could be stressed....worried about something...maybe he is having problems sexually and doesn't want to tell you about it..it could be a number of things..dont start thinking the worst..if you haven't already talk to him about it...and let him know its serious....with me it happens when im stressed or right before im being deployed.....eventually it goes away and romance is back but just talk to him hope things work out
2006-08-03 20:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by sgtrlopez 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well by reading ur problem ...i. can tell u to allow him to drink some wine ver in he might be romantic towards u ..this might change his mind atlest for some time and he will try to think on it and u record it what all he says ,,,,,u need not worry about this dear ...or ask him "y dont u like sex ..whats the problem do u have ...explain him that sex is also a part of a married life "plz dear u need not worry for this may GOD changes ur hubbies mind and u will have very good time with ur hubby...when u both r alone in the house u try to put some sexy dresses.. u try to talk to him about sex regularly......wish u all the very best
2006-08-04 03:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a big problem , just wait and watch. Try to understand his feeling. he may be busy or in stress at that time. try to solve his problem also. not even say only sexy talk but you maintain yourself as sexy. cook some dish and serve it to your husband, definetly you will see the positive result. best of luck
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2006-08-04 03:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by NARESH m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting romantic towards him - if possible try to get in touch with him "on-line", without his knowledge, and get "romantic" there and then see what wonderful things happen - and then you both will be back to your old romantic life joking about the way in which you made it happen...
2006-08-04 03:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear it. I lived in the situation and evenatually my husband slept with some of the women he was talking to. Now we're divorcing. I hope everything goes the way that you want it to.
2006-08-04 03:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about why..maybe change your hair style or color a little bit..try some role playing..or start joking round more about sex...it is apparent thathe needs something different to happen..he is not cheating now and probably doesnt want to but i fhe continues to chat online and you cant get his interest bak it sounds like a bad road to go down
2006-08-04 03:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by vincenzo445 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is taking you for granted, and sorry to hear that!!! maybe your not compatible..its time for you to frank him and tell him if does she still love you..dont be too sweet to him..let him feel that u dont like the way he is treating you...
2006-08-04 03:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by toryo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of the unlucky ones. It just happens. There's nothing you can do. Hire a PI to spy on him.
2006-08-04 12:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha he's just getting on your nerves. Give him the best bj ever and give him the ultimatum..... Are you in or out?
2006-08-04 04:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by shida2606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why whats wrong with me then either change or adapt meaning try new people
2006-08-04 03:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋