are there any white girls who are turned on by black men?

Question

really can a white lady fancy a blackman to the extent of falling in love with them? is it common or there are only a few isolated cases.I have been with white girls in class but none of them wants to even talk to me.to make matters worse I have just fallen in love with one white girl but have no balls to even approach her.Rejection stinks and I wouldnot want to experience it.what should i do?

Answer 1

You cant possibly be that far out of the picture not to know the answer to that question, I cant believe you have never seen a mixed race couple?
Do you also think you are going to go through life without rejection?
You certainly have a thing about colour don't you? if your colour is making you feel insecure you have a problem which will get worse! Maybe a g/f (of any colour) would sort that out, but if you come across in real life as you do in your question, your never going to get one!
If you have been with (whatever that means) white girls in class and they don't want to talk to you, then its not just down to the girls unless your the only black feller in the class and they are all racist?(very doubtful)
So look for another reason, tell yourself 'Black is beautiful, and really believe it) get some self confidence stop being a wimp, (you wimp)!
Convince your self it doesn't matter if you get rejected or not, try again, and stop feeling sorry for yourself or you will remain a pathetic wimp all your life!
I'm building up into a real 'wobbler' here so I'll leave it at that!

Answer 2

Do you want a possible chance of love passing you by?
Knock off the shy thing
Aim for friendship first. If you are having trouble approaching women, start by just being friendly. Friends make for great relationships. Friendships are easier to start than a romance. Friendships are non-threatening. Women respond to invitations to friendship.

Be confident. Women appreciate men who are confident. Find a way to be genuinely confident about your life, your appearance, your job, your ability to attract a woman of your choice, etc. Let this confidence shine through.

Women live in a world of words. A sure way to successfully approach and connect with a woman is by talking with her. Don't stop this practice once you are in a relationship -- a woman will always need for you to communicate and talk with her.

Here's an opening line that works very well for me
"Why do you look so sad ?" or "Why do you look so happy ?" (depends on how she looks of course). Say it with confidence, with a big smile on your face and it will work well. Give it a try … you'll be pleasantly surprised at how well it works.

This works well for two reasons

It is an open ended question. It demands more than a yes or no answer so it will get her talking and leave you with the opportunity to ask more questions.

It will set her at ease. It's not a traditional, cheesy pick up line

Answer 3

You know, there is a very big frame of reference problem here. I don't think that it is a question of white girls/black girls, Hispanic, Asiatic, mixed,whatever; these are all categories, and I am so not into putting people into categories.
One thing, you might be trying too hard. You come on needy to any lady and you are more likely to get shot down that anything else.
Two, you don't say how old you are.If you are in high school, you might be dealing with females whose parents have a big say in the matter.
My final answer to you is that, yes, there are people of all different colors, religions and ethnic backgrounds who do care for someone else who is different in one or more of these regards.
Instead of looking for "a white girl," or a "black girl" or a "Hispanic girl" or an "Asiatic girl" what you should be doing is developing yourself as a person and letting relationships develop naturally.

Answer 4

It sounds like you have issues about yourself or the stories you have heard from the past about mixed relationships and how they turn out. Those days are over in most places. Now if you are in the south, I could see your hesitation, but in reality speaking as a caucasian woman, I didn't think I was the type a black man would be interested in so I secluded myself from any situations that I might feel rejection also. But one day, a very good looking blk man approached me at a sports bar where I was sitting playing the video game and asked me to dance. Was he surprised when I said yes, and thank you after the dance. He then communicated with me about what he likes in a woman. From that we called each other and would talk,or just hang out. Me learning about him and what he is all about and me sharing what I am all about. We fell in love, but the streets beat me out, they are just something a caucacian woman can not compete with, and a lady can not tolerate. So in saying that. Just know what you want, cause most black men have to deal with other black mens opinions,comments, and cultural beliefs. So you have to be willing to support a white woman alittle more than you would say a black woman. If you have those qualities and confidence, then yes there are plenty of white women looking at black men...... GL

Answer 5

OK I have a few answers for you. I have dated black men in the past as well as other types of guys. My first love was a black guy so I guess that shows that I have been attracted too and in love with black men at points in my life. I don't believe love knows boundaries. Love is just love, and you really can't help who you love.

And as far as rejection goes hell yeah it sucks but would you rather go through life wondering what she would have said, or would you rather ask and move on with your life no matter how she answers you.

Answer 6

Many white girls seem to be interested in black men particularly, but most would love someone based on his personality, regardless of race. If someone doesn't like you because of your race, she's not worth worrying about. But you must screw up the courage to try.

I assume you're in high school - my only major regret about high school, 20 years ago, is that I did not have more courage in pursuing girls I liked over the years. If she rejects you based on incompatibility, believe me, in the long term you'll feel better knowing you tried. Ultimately rejection is not worse than regret at not having tried.

Answer 7

I think yes!!! it's not impossible anyway, we are all created equal and the color of the skin is really doesn't matter!!!! So just try to tell her your feelings... at least you try rather than never!!!
I'm an Asian girl,not white nor black,,,... but i just want to help you to approach your personality and be confident at the same time!!

Answer 8

This is not the right question to be asking. I've seen numerous examples of what you're talking about. The question is, are there any black women who like white men. For this, all of my observations tend to suggest no. (Perhaps we're just not cool enough)

Answer 9

yes i m a white girl and fell in love with a black guy last year. the love wasnt recipricated though and im still hurting. i really really loved him - i feel ive been trodden on and booted hard. i really loved him - sorry where was i it was u i was supposed to be talking about.
please please approach her - yes rejection is a terrible thing but so is not knowing too. if u want something follow that rainbow yeh yeh i know its corney but did i tell u i loved the guy???

Answer 10

Well I'm white and I fall in love with the man, not the colour of his skin.
Go for the girl. If she rejects you because of the colour of your skin, do you really want her in the first place?