I just wanted to find out a mans opinion on this subject :
Ok I have a friend who is messing with a married man. They started off as good friends. She is married also. She is currently going through problems with her husband . She telling the Friend all the problems shes going through. He also has problems in his marriage . They share their common problems... Well now they're sleeping with eachother. Here is the problem... He knows she like him but hes always telling her about how he love his wife and he always talking about other women around her. (I think hes just using her.) Before they slept together he would always give her a kiss... Now he leaves her office and doesn't think twice about kissing her.
This is all after just sleeping with her once!!!! Question to the men... What do you think his motives are? And why would he talk about other women to her(when he knows she likes him)? Also sometime he will call on the phone and talk to her about another woman or his wife???
2006-08-03 19:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no question about it he is using her....first off why are they with other people if they are both married ..i hate people who do this sort of thing..anyways..to your question....i dont know their problems but it does seem like he is using her..he was sweet and caring until he got what he wanted and now thats all he wants from her..there are those men that just find a female to use for that reason because they aren't getting it enough at home or they are just tired of their wife in a sexual manner....like you said he is always talking about how much he loves his wife ( which not enough or he wouldn't be doing this sort of things) that says right there he wont leave his wife for any other women..and as for talking about other women doesn't that make her open her eyes to the fact that he may be sleeping with more women...if your a good friend to her you will try to talk her out of seeing him again..i know she is an adult and can do what she pleases but she has a husband at home....instead of having feelings for this guy which seems like he is going to break her heart..she should focus on making her marriage work...since clearly there are problems if she is going out on her husband...anyways i hope things work out
2006-08-03 19:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by sgtrlopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants a piece. It sounds like he is no where near leaving his wife and your friend won't be his last mistress. Her biggest problem is that she needs to get out of her marriage and forget this other guy. She obviously has a lot of issues and in all seriousness she should seek the help of a therapist. If she were happy in her marriage and with herself she would not be in this situation. My heart goes out to her and all the vicitimized spouses.
2006-08-03 19:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by mildmanneredclarkkent64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is just enjoying all of the attention! He was real hot for this one until he slept with her. Most likely the sex with her wasn't as great as he had hoped so now he is talking to even more ladies to try and get them to sleep with him also.
The guy is a major loser! Tell your friend to drop him like a rock!
He isn't worth her time at all!
2006-08-04 03:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend to run away from this guy. He was out for the thrill. He is either too chicken to leave his wife or the "problems" he mentioned are all fictitious, just to get into your friend's pants.
He used her.
2006-08-03 21:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by blah_in_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does not want this female to runaway from him. He wants her to hold on to him and he know she will as she loves her. However, talking about his wife / other woman is only to give her a hidden message that ""if you leave me, don't worry about me, I am better placed then you."
2006-08-03 19:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we could face it the two adult men and girls folk play recommendations video games. purely go away him on my own for a mutually as, each and every so often rows convey you nearer mutually. As to why they do it. purely think of of why you do it, then perhaps you will comprehend that the reason being usually valid whilst the boot is on the different foot, and then we quiet down..........
2016-10-01 11:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes that man is just havin all the fun . men arent serious bout such relationships theyr like a bus get down at the first stop!
2006-08-03 20:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like She is just His friend, although She is falling for Him. Ever heard of friends with benefits???
2006-08-03 19:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by krash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....a man's view of it. she needs to do some self-esteem study/training so she won't be a sucker and doormat for this kind of 'user'.
all it takes is a little training in self-respect to prevent a person from allowing themself to be USED this way.
2006-08-03 21:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you write the story, he's playing games, and playing hard to get... tell your girlfriend to start talking about her husband, that everything is working out. lets see how he reacts to his game that his playing, you'll be surprise....
2006-08-03 20:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋