she keeps trying to push me into a relationship with her, (which i dont want) i have told her im happy just friends but she wont listen.
what else can i do other than tell her to leave me alone???
2006-08-03 19:37:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let her know that pushing is just causing you to lose interest in even being friends. If she wants to keep your friendship she will realize it and back off. Let her know that it is just too much!
2006-08-03 19:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by sissyfyia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I know just how you feel I've been in the same situation with a male friend. The only way I got him to stop trying to push me into a relationship with him was to keep saying no. He would call me and say things like "I love you" or "I can't help it if i think your gorgeous." My reply would be "I like you but only as a friend" He would also get mutual friends to ask me if I would go out with him, and I would tell them the same "I like him but only as a friend." It may take time and a lot of patience's on your part but it will work. I would just warn you against saying things like "lets just see what happens" as she could take this to mean she stands a chance later on. The only other thing to warn you about is how you say things to her. If she is a friend you don't want to hurt her but you need to make your feelings known so to do this I would be firm and fair, but keeping the message the same "I like you but only as a friend." Don't be nasty or hurtful as you could loose her friendship for good if you are. Be as nice as you can be with out knocking her confidence.
Good luck I hope it works out for you.
2006-08-04 03:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are not like most guys I've met.
There's not much more you can do, than tell her you only want to be friends and nothing more. That is if you want to remain friends with this girl. Just try not to totally break her heart.
2006-08-04 02:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are this serious about it, I guess you can't hang out with her, because she's clearly not taking no for an answer. If you've told her like it is, that's all you can do. Perhaps she's thinking that you're playing hard to get?
2006-08-04 02:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai philtuz73,
i think u should say the truth to her....i know it not easy to say it..but u must try...if u dont want her anymore.if u scare to tell her the thruth she never know and she will always distruping u...i think she will undertant... sometime we forgot our self just only dont want other people sad because of us..but if u really dont like her u must say to her..say the truth and dont run from your problem.
2006-08-04 03:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest,open and if the friendship is worth holding onto stick at it.
2006-08-04 03:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply tell her that youre not interested or set her up with someone else
2006-08-04 02:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know reltionship are nt made from one end.both d prsn hav to b ready and in it to b in it.tell her clearly wat u want or else it wud affect ur frndship too.
2006-08-04 03:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by RAJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its reely harsh but!!!! BACK OF B****H I DONT LIKE YOU AT ALL OK !!!!!!!! SHEESH !!!!
NO IM KIDDING JUST EXPLAIN IT 2 HER SOFTLY ⥠⥠⥠ME
2006-08-04 02:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by rkhm4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with her. then she will know your kak
2006-08-06 20:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by sid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋