i'm attracted to this girl but i exboyfried wh i had for 6 months asked if we should get back together. i boyfriend is very good looking. i'm so confused and scared. if i tell my boyfriend abt this then he will tell all my friends. i dont know what to do. and i feel strongly abt this girl who is very pretty too. am i a lesbian? or am i bisexual? plz someone help!
2006-08-03 19:30:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'd assume you're 12-15 years old? If so, it's normal don't worry about it. It's hormones, it doesn't mean you're bisexual or lesbian. You're just not sure about your sexuality yet, because your hormones are going crazy. The only thing you can do is wait.
2006-08-03 19:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by ButterflyAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you know if this girl would be into you??? If so go for it, Its been my experience that if you break up with someone and then get back together, at some point you will just break up again. I have never had a break up get back together work out. And looks aren't everything, whats on the inside matters more. So if you know this girls is into you Go for it. And as far as being bi or lez, it sounds like you are still attracted to men to, so I would say Bi. and Don't let these other narrow minded bigots on here get to you its the 21st century, there's nothing wrong with the way your feeling!!!
2006-08-03 19:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by The Prez. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help is on the way.
take if from me, at this point in time you don't want to tell your boyfriend about this attraction ,,and use good discretion if and when you do.
it looks to me that you may in fact be bisexual since you are attracted to both sexes which means you are not specifically lesbian yet.
i wish you luck with your new attraction but don't get your self hurt. it obviously doesn't work out if there not interested ,and or it damages your reputation to much. you might want to consider ajusting appropriately, how you are around others when necessary. take care
DW
2006-08-03 19:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by The Prophet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound confused and rushed. Stop a minute and realize you don't have to do anything or make any decisions now. You don't have to go into details but tell your ex bf that you need a little time to think about some things....if he won't give you this courtesy you don't need him anyway. Only you know about your sexuality just take your time.
2006-08-03 19:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your just exploring who you are. Get some counseling to sort out your thoughts and feelings before you hurt someone else in a relationship or get hurt self by making a choice out of desperation. Doesn't matter which you are as long as you are true to yourself in the end and don't hurt others along the way..
2006-08-03 19:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Patty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well based on the other question you posted, I say it's safe to assume that you're a lesbian. If you like it, then go for it. If your friends are really your friends, they won't judge you. If they do, you're better off without them.
2006-08-03 19:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably bi, just let things happen, this girl may not be interesting, ans this guy may be looking for sex, shiit happens, go for what really feels right, don't go off what other people think!
2006-08-03 19:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in that phase of life that involves experimenting. Just play around with her a bit and see if you still like it. You might be bi...
2006-08-03 20:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by World of Suffering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhh feeling froggy are you? Go take a cold shower and sleep on it and in the morning you can decide if you like apples, oranges or mixed fuit salad.
2006-08-03 19:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a bisexual like me tell ur bf hey i like this gurl please dont tell any 1 if he realli likes u he wont tell but if he does it shows u how much of an a$$ wipe he is if u wanna chat more about this email me at ziggysangel18@yahoo.com or u can chat 2 me at myspace.com/starsbitch202 thats my page
2006-08-04 07:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋