My boyfriend and I of about a month are getting married tommaorw, what do you think?

Question

I honestly don't know what to think, I'm just letting myself free fall for him and I think he really seems like a nice great guy.

Answer 1

Hey some people date for years and they bomb at marriage.
Others meet and quickly marry. It might be good to have a marathon talk going over how you guys view life. And talk about. "what if's" and how you would handle things.

I think it is romantic. I would love if it happened to me.
Best wishes

Answer 2

I married within 3 mos. Married 23 yrs, we've outlasted high school sweethearts etc. It is what you make out of it. If you both believe in monogomous relationships and both do not believe in divorce, there is hope. We reap what we sow. Your mate can not read your mind, which involves communication and respect for each other's unique differences. You live on love the first two years. Regardless of the amount of time you've known each other, you will never NEVER truly know anyone else, So go with your heart, and gut feelings. Be sure to have more than physical attraction in common

Answer 3

1 month??? wow, you're brave!
i don't know, i mean i probably wouldn't do it... i wouldn't feel comfortable marrying someone that soon just because i don't think i could know how he'd react in situations...
i mean, for most relationships, the first few months are all happy... but what happends when you disagree on something? do you know how he reacts when he's angry?

plus, i mean you've got time. there's nothing that says you have to get married so soon. if you're that commited to each other then waiting another few months shouldn't be a big deal.

but it's up to you! and each person and relationship is different, so if this is what works for you then run with it! it doesn't really matter what i think or what anyone else thinks, the important thing is what you think. you and him both. that's it.

best of luck!

Answer 4

Falling in love and getting married are far and separate emotions. A one month relationship with a person is a dangerous avenue and not to be entering into marriage.

I think you and your boyfriend are making a major mistake here! There is no possible way you could have determined that this person is the right one to marry after ONE month!

Call it off! You should date for a period of time, get to know one another...........

He can be the greatest guy on Earth! But after one month? You have no idea!

Answer 5

You're crazy! The first few months of a relationship is spent getting to know someone... what if this guy is a felon with a HUGE criminal background? What if he's abusive? What if... there are so many "what if" questions that you should ask yourself about this dude. Wow, I can't even imagine what it will be like to marry a guy after only one month of dating...

But who am I to tell you what you can and can't do, I'm sure you're capable of making your own decisions, let's just hope they're the right ones for you. But whatever happens, best of luck to you.

Answer 6

Hmmm... I strongly think that you need to ask yourself. Even he is a great guy.. Can we survive after marriage? Do we have the money to support our children if we do have any?

You need to think of all these? And if you can't find the answers to any of the question above and something which is similar to the above questions.. I strongly suggest that you get to know him better in person, his family, his friends...

And in the meanwhile.. you can further your studies.. make more friends, and who knows if the guy whom you are with now is not really the apple of your eye. You still have your friends, the other friends whom you know.

Remember marriage is not just a status, marriage is a promise, a bond that both of you must keep. To stay together till your deaths that you both will support each other, to be each others best friends.

Yah?

If you more questions you can just msg me, and I am more than happy to answer your questions...

Cheers!

Answer 7

I think you are probably making a mistake. You really need to know someone and be able to accept their flaws in order to stay married. There is no way you can know that much about each other after a month. It took me living with my husband (boyfriend at the time) for about 8 months before I was sure I could love him forever.

Answer 8

I think it's too soon for marriage, right now you're still in the "honey moon stage" where your still in lust. You don't know what's going to happen a few months down the track. It's a life long commitment, and your already having doubts, otherwise you wouldn't need to ask this question. Of course it's totally your choice, if you love him & you think you want to spend the rest of your life with this person go for it, but you cant truly know a person after one month, & if you're not certain about this, don't do it.

Answer 9

Marriage is a life long commitment. If you are really in love, you will still be in another 11 months. Get married at that point. Don't make a premature mistake and add to the growing number of divorces.

Best of luck whatever your decision.

Answer 10

Oh my Gosh , it's like you have already answer yourself to that question you ask. "I am letting myself a free fall for him." You have decided, make up your mind already and you are marry him tomorrow. ^_^ Well, love makes people do crazy things but love is never blind, stupid or a game to be play. Most important is ... if YOU think YOU know him well enough and he is the right ONE for you, willingly to take all risk and chances then go ahead with what you decided ^_^ and no second thoughts. Good Luck.