I have this relatioship for more than 3 years now w/ a married person. after a year of affair, we had no sexual relationship anymore because according to her, her conscience holding her from doing it with me. I can't let go because i still love her so. she can't even let go of me she also loves me. i don't know if anyone can relate to this. seems we're just the best of friends but i'm still hurt and always got jealous. any comments pls.
2006-08-03 19:22:37 · 4 answers · asked by jewel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, if she's married and is cheating on her husband, the odds are that if she left him and stayed with you, she'd cheat on you, too. Leopards don't change their spots. I believe that if she doesn't want to have sex with you, she's just not that into you, so to speak. It sounds like you do really love her and that she loves controlling you! She can't let go of the control, not you (sorry, I'm not being mean here) Once you can start loving yourself, you'll truly be capable of a healthy and happy relationship. You've put yourself in a lose-lose situation with a married woman. Try making yourself available to new people and see the difference on how you're treated. Good luck!
2006-08-03 19:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Answers to Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the first answer is not making sense to me love is love no matter the sex of the two people. so she couldn't cheat anymore. it is hard that you still love each other with out it being sex, kind of ironic i would say. you will always be jealous and hurt but really there is nothing you can do if her heart won't let her be close with you in that way. i am sorry for your pain and hope everything works out!! good luck!
2006-08-04 02:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong but if it must go on, you need to understand that she is someone's wife and her husband would have your balls for breakfast if he found out. Stop your jealousy and be contented with the illegal sex you are getting from her, she is not yours and you can't have her in any way more than that unless you want to break a home.
Try dating someone else if you are not married yourself and see if the divided attention won't help you understand things better.
2006-08-04 03:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ur crazzy 1st off b./c ur a chick wit a chick!! 2ed i was like this wit a guy and all u need to do is find someone else like a guy and c how things go
2006-08-04 02:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋